Connect with us

Published

on

The families of premature babies face being pushed into poverty or missing out on time with their sick children amid the rising cost of living.

On average, parents are paying an extra £405 per week while their baby is in hospital, according to a survey of 1,928 people.

For many, it is a double-edged sword – the extra expenses come at a time when their household income has dropped, with statutory maternity pay of £156.66 per week (or 90% of average weekly earnings – whichever is lower).

One in seven babies born in the UK is admitted to a neonatal unit, according to Bliss – a charity for sick and premature babies.

While the majority are born full term (and on average spend a week receiving care), the families of the sickest babies face an agonising hospital stay – and a hefty bill at the end of it, exacerbated by the cost of living crisis.

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living

Born weighing just 535g

Lauren Ormston’s pregnancy had been progressing normally when she suddenly went into labour at six months.

Baby Isla was given survival odds of 40% and was born weighing 1lb 2oz (535g) at 23 weeks. This would not even be her lowest weight – a few days later, it dropped to just 15oz (430g).

Lauren, 27, was allowed to cuddle her daughter for six minutes alongside her fiance Oliver Dewey, 31, before Isla was moved to the neonatal unit and ventilated.

She had a bleed on her brain, a hole in her heart and kidney failure.

“The doctor just told us to take each hour as it comes,” Lauren told Sky News.

“I was devastated, I didn’t know what to say, think or do. Because I had just brought this little human into the world and now she was having to fight for her life. It wasn’t fair on her.”

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living

130 days of travel

Isla spent 130 days in neonatal units at Ashford and St Peter’s Hospital in Surrey and Frimley Park Hospital in Camberley, and Lauren visited her every single day.

“There was not one day when I didn’t see her,” she said.

At St Peter’s Hospital, it was an 80-minute round trip – when Isla moved back to Frimley Park this was halved – although the family had to pay parking costs of £20 a week.

At one point, Isla was rushed to Great Ormond Street hospital for surgery on her eye, but Oliver was not allowed to stay on the ward, so had to pay £400 for a hotel for two nights to be near his daughter.

The hospital was unable to save the sight in Isla’s right eye – and the stay at Great Ormond cost the family £600.

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living
Image:
Isla being transported between neonatal units

Like many other parents surveyed by Bliss, travel was the biggest cost and Lauren spent around £150 a week on fuel. A tyre puncture en route one day added an extra £300.

Bliss said parents who are able to drive to the hospital spend £101 a week on average, while those who have to rely on public transport spend £119.

Despite spending more on travel, parents using public transport to see their babies are more likely to be in lower income brackets.

The unaffordable cost of travelling to and from the neonatal unit had a tangible impact on how involved parents can be in their baby’s care.

Some 84% of those who used public transport said that stopped them from being as involved as they wanted to be.

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living

Expensive canteen food and takeaways

The cost of food and drink at hospitals is notoriously high and options are limited.

Bliss said: “Parents have little choice over where to buy food and drink while at the hospital and are reliant on expensive hospital canteens and franchises rather than being able to prepare food from scratch or shop around.

“The lack of choice is exacerbated by limited facilities on neonatal units.”

A recent report found that more than a quarter of hospitals (27%) don’t have a parent kitchen.

On average, parents spent £96 a week more than their regular food budget while their baby was in a neonatal unit.

Lauren and her fiance lived off hospital sandwiches and fast food – or quick pick-up meals – while Isla was in hospital.

“I had to keep eating, but I didn’t want to have anything in the house because I needed to be with Isla all the time,” she said.

Isla- Lauren - neonatal cost of living

The cost of life-sustaining equipment

When Isla returned home in July, she required oxygen for four months.

This ended last Friday – but the family still operates a sleep study machine that monitors her oxygen levels and an apnea monitor.

They are also looking to buy a CO2 monitor at a cost of £230.

Bliss found 74% of parents with a baby who had been discharged from a neonatal unit in the last year said they were concerned that it was somewhat or very likely that the rising cost of energy could stop them from keeping their home warm this winter – something essential for premature children.

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living

Within the survey, two of the 24 respondents whose babies were currently using at-home medical equipment said the rising cost of energy had stopped them from using the devices their babies need.

Some 47% said they were concerned that the cost of energy may impact their ability to run this equipment in the future.

The charity is calling on the government and Ofgem to ensure energy companies cannot disconnect domestic energy support for households which include a vulnerable baby – and those who need to power at-home medical equipment.

It is also asking for an emergency neonatal fund to offer payments to cover extra energy costs caused by this equipment and for one to cover food and drink, travel, parking, accommodation and childcare costs associated with having a baby in neonatal care.

Read more on the cost of living crisis:
Six in 10 adults struggling to keep up with their bills
Millions skip meals or struggle to buy healthy food

How much will my energy bills increase next year?

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living

‘I feel cheated’: Returning to work

Oliver had to return to work three days after Isla was born, or risk using up all of his two-week paternity leave while Isla was in the neonatal unit.

“He had to, as much as it hurt him,” said Lauren.

“He wasn’t able to be there to see his daughter during the mornings, or change her nappy during the day, or help me. He had to go back to work so that he could help me pay for things.”

Bliss found on average households lost £2,994 in income over the time that their baby was in neonatal care.

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living
Lauren Ormston and fiance Oliver Dewey

Meanwhile, Lauren had to spend four months of her maternity leave watching Isla in hospital.

A new law, backed by the government, could allow parents whose babies require specialist care after birth to take additional time off work.

The Neonatal Care (Leave and Pay) Bill would allow parents to take up to 12 weeks of paid leave, in addition to maternity and paternity leave.

However, although the bill has passed its second reading in the House of Commons, it still must go through the House of Lords before it can become law, which means there is no immediate relief for parents such as Lauren and Oliver.

She now has to return to work just a few months after Isla is out of hospital and said she felt “cheated” from the time she will now lose with her daughter, all while paying £81 a day in nursery fees. This will suck up the majority of her paycheck, with what’s left going toward their mortgage.

“I am basically working to pay for nursery, and to try and keep a roof over our heads,” she said.

Isla - Lauren Ormston - Neonatal cost of living

‘I would never forgive myself’

Isla will have chronic lung disease for the rest of her life, alongside blindness in one eye. The family is not sure what other problems her prematurity may bring, or if she will have any disabilities because of the bleed on her brain.

But for Lauren, whatever the cost she will continue – even if it means going into debt.

One in four families have had to borrow money or increase their debt because of their baby’s neonatal stay.

“I am concerned, but I won’t stop using it. Money is money at the end of the day,” Lauren said.

“The cost of energy is going to have a massive impact, but I know I can’t stop using it.

“Because I know if I do and something happened I would never forgive myself.”

Worried about the cost of living? Share your story with Sky News

We want to hear your stories – which you can share here:

Your report on Sky News apps

WhatsApp

Email

By sending us your video footage, photographs or audio you agree we can publish, broadcast and edit the material

Continue Reading

UK

Police investigating alleged attack on prison officer by Southport triple murderer Axel Rudakubana

Published

on

By

Police investigating alleged attack on prison officer by Southport triple murderer Axel Rudakubana

Police are investigating an alleged attack on a prison officer by Southport triple killer Axel Rudakubana on Thursday, Sky News understands.

A Prison Service spokesperson said: “Police are investigating an attack on a prison officer at HMP Belmarsh yesterday.

“Violence in prison will not be tolerated and we will always push for the strongest possible punishment for attacks on our hardworking staff.”

Rudakubana is serving life in jail for murdering Alice da Silva Aguiar, nine, Bebe King, six, and Elsie Dot Stancombe, seven, at a Taylor Swift-themed dance class last year.

According to The Sun, Rudakubana poured boiling water over the prison officer, who was taken to hospital as a precaution but only suffered minor injuries.

This breaking news story is being updated and more details will be published shortly.

Please refresh the page for the fullest version.

You can receive breaking news alerts on a smartphone or tablet via the Sky News app. You can also follow us on WhatsApp and subscribe to our YouTube channel to keep up with the latest news.

Continue Reading

UK

School kids asking for advice on strangulation during sex – as abuse victim issues warning

Published

on

By

School kids asking for advice on strangulation during sex - as abuse victim issues warning

Schoolchildren are asking teachers how to strangle a partner during sex safely, a charity says, while official figures show an alarming rise in the crime related to domestic abuse cases.

Warning: This article contains references to strangulation, domestic abuse and distressing images.

It comes as a woman whose former partner almost strangled her to death in a rage has advised anyone in an abusive relationship to seek help.

Bernie Ryan, chief executive of the Institute for Addressing Strangulation, has been running the charity since its inception in 2022 after non-fatal strangulation became a standalone offence.

“It’s the ultimate form of control,” she says.

She says perpetrators and victims are getting younger, while the reason is unclear, but strangulation has seeped into popular culture and social media.

“We hear lots of sex education providers, teachers saying that they’re hearing it in schools.

“We know teachers have been asked, ‘how do I teach somebody to strangle safely?’

“Our message is there is no safe way to strangle – the anatomy is the anatomy. Reduction in oxygen to the brain or blood flow will result in the same medical consequences, regardless of context.”

Bernie Ryan, the Chief Executive of the Institute for Addressing Strangulation
Image:
Bernie Ryan, CEO of the Institute for Addressing Strangulation

A recent review by Conservative peer Baroness Gabby Bertin recommended banning “degrading, violent and misogynistic content” online.

Violent pornography showing women being choked during sex she found was “rife on mainstream platforms”.

Ms Ryan says she “wants to make sure that young people don’t have access to activities that demonstrate that this is normal behaviour”.

Read more from Sky News:
Suspect accused of Derby bank murder appears in court
Man whose body was found in suitcase ‘had raped teenager’

Strangulation is a violent act that is often committed in abusive relationships.

It is the second most common method used by men to kill women, the first is stabbing.

According to statistics shared by the Crown Prosecution Service, in 2024 there was an almost 50% rise in incidents of non-fatal strangulation and suffocation – compared to the year before.

Kerry pleads for other victims of abuse to leave before it's too late
Image:
Kerry Allan pleads for other victims of abuse to seek help

Domestic abuse victim Kerry Allan has a message for anyone who is in an abusive relationship.

Kerry met Michael Cosgrove in September 2022. While she said “at the beginning it was really good”, within months he became physically abusive.

In August last year her friends found his profile on a dating app.

“I confronted him and he denied it. I knew we were going to get into a big argument and I couldn’t face it, so I said I was going to my mum’s for a few days and take myself away from the situation.

“I came back a few days later and stupidly I agreed we could try again and everything escalated from that.”

Injuries to Kerry's chest. Pic: CPS
Image:
Injuries to Kerry’s chest. Pic: CPS

In the early hours of 25 August the pair had come in from a night out at a concert and got into an argument.

“He was having a go at me, accusing me of flirting with other people, and I was angry. I told him he had a nerve after what he’d done to me in the week and how he humiliated me.

“I told him that I wanted to leave, that we were done and that I wanted to go to my mum’s and that’s when it got bad.

“He pinned me to the bed and that’s when he first strangled me.”

Kerry's neck injury. Pic: CPS
Image:
Kerry’s neck injury. Pic: CPS

Kerry says this was the first time she’d ever been violently assaulted. Cosgrove was eerily silent as he eventually let go and Kerry gasped for air.

“I remember trying to get my breath back, I was crying and hyperventilating… I was sick on the bedroom floor and I was asking him to go.”

Cosgrove strangled her for a second time before letting go again.

“He was saying I wasn’t getting out of this bedroom alive. I was dead tonight, he hoped that I knew that. Just kept saying how I’d ruined his life.”

Injury to Kerry's eye. Pic: CPS
Image:
Injury to Kerry’s eye. Pic: CPS

“I remember feeling a sort of shock thinking at this point, I’m not going to get out of this bedroom, he’s actually going to kill me.”

Kerry began screaming and shouting for help as loud as she could.

Her neighbours heard the commotion and called the police. While they were en route, Kerry was once again being assaulted.

Bleeding in Kerry's eye
Image:
Bleeding in Kerry’s eye

“I ran over to the bedroom window and tried to jump out, he grabbed me as I went to open the window, and we struggled. And then I was back in the same position, he was on top of me on the bed, and his hands were round the throat again. But this time it didn’t stop.

“I remember trying to struggle and trying to kick out and hit him and I just kept thinking that I definitely was going to die, because at this point, it wasn’t stopping.”

The next memory Kerry has is opening her eyes to see police and paramedics in the bedroom.

Michael Cosgrove. Pic: CPS
Image:
Michael Cosgrove. Pic: CPS

Cosgrove had heard the sirens, jumped out of the bedroom window and went to hide in Kerry’s car.

Kerry remembers opening her eyes to paramedics caring for her: “I remember thinking, I’m alive. I couldn’t believe it. I couldn’t believe that I was alive and I wasn’t dead. My last memory is him being on top of me with his hands on my throat.”

Kerry met Michael Cosgrove in September 2022
Image:
Kerry met Michael Cosgrove in September 2022

She gives this advice to anyone who is in an abusive relationship: “Please speak to somebody, whether it’s friends, family, a work colleague, whether it’s somebody online, whether it’s a charity that you’re directed to, any sort of abuse is not okay.

“Whether it starts off emotional, they often start off that way, and they escalate, and they can escalate badly.

“Take what happened to me as a huge warning sign, because I wouldn’t want anyone else to be in the position I’ve been in the last eight months.”

Cosgrove was found guilty of attempting to murder Kerry and intentional strangulation.

He will be sentenced in July.

If you suspect you are being abused and need to speak to someone, there are people who can help you.

The National Domestic Violence Helpline: 0808 2000 247

Women’s Aid

Respect, the helpline for male domestic abuse victims: 0808 8010327

Galop, the LGBT+ anti-violence charity: 0800 999 5428

Continue Reading

UK

Two men found guilty of cutting down famous Sycamore Gap tree

Published

on

By

Two men found guilty of cutting down famous Sycamore Gap tree

Two men have been found guilty of cutting down the famous Sycamore Gap tree that stood for more than 150 years.

Daniel Graham and Adam Carruthers were convicted of causing more than £620,000 worth of damage to the tree and more than £1,000 worth of damage to Hadrian’s Wall in Northumberland.

On 27 September 2023, the pair drove 30 miles through a storm to Northumberland from Cumbria, where they both lived, before felling the tree overnight in a matter of minutes.

An image of the Sycamore Gap standing, which was shown in evidence. This image was taken at approx. 5.20pm on Wednesday 27 September 2023.
Pic: CPS
Image:
The Sycamore Gap tree before it was cut down. Pic: CPS

The pair each denied two counts of criminal damage to the sycamore and to Hadrian’s Wall, which was damaged when the tree fell on it, but were convicted by a jury at Newcastle Crown Court on Friday.

The Sycamore Gap tree sat in a dip in the landscape and held a place in pop culture, featuring in the 1991 Kevin Costner film Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves.

It also formed part of people’s personal lives, as the scene of wedding proposals, ashes being scattered and countless photographs.

Footage of the moment the tree was felled was played during the trial.

Undated handout photo issued by Northumbria Police of Daniel Graham. Daniel Graham, 39, has been found guilty at Newcastle Crown Court alongside mechanic Adam Carruthers, 32, of criminal damage after the felling of the Sycamore Gap tree - valued at £622,000 and £1,114 damage to Hadrian's Wall. Both defendants will be sentenced on July 15. Issue date: Friday May 9, 2025.
Image:
Daniel Graham. Pic: Northumbria Police/PA

Undated handout photo issued by Northumbria Police of Adam Carruthers. Adam Carruthers, 32, has been found guilty at Newcastle Crown Court alongside groundworker Daniel Graham, 39, of criminal damage after the felling of the Sycamore Gap tree - valued at £622,000 and £1,114 damage to Hadrian's Wall. Both defendants will be sentenced on July 15. Issue date: Friday May 9, 2025.
Image:
Adam Carruthers. Pic: Northumbria Police/PA

In the clip, the sound of a chainsaw can be heard, and the silhouette of a person can be seen, before the trunk eventually tumbled.

The footage was shot on Graham’s iPhone 13, with the metadata providing the coordinates of the tree.

Part of tree kept as ‘trophy’

Over the course of the trial, the pair blamed one another, but the prosecution argued they were both responsible for what the court heard was a “mindless act of vandalism”.

As well as the video footage of the felling, an image of a piece of wood and a chainsaw was found on Graham’s phone.

Adam Carruthers and Daniel Graham. Pic: CPS/PA
Image:
Adam Carruthers (R) and Daniel Graham (L) worked together felling trees. Pic: CPS/PA

Chainsaw and chunk of wood never found. Pic: PA
Image:
An image of a piece of wood and a chainsaw was found on Graham’s phone. Pic: PA

Richard Wright KC, prosecuting, told the court: “This was perhaps a trophy taken from the scene to remind them of their actions, actions that they appear to have been revelling in.”

Voice notes played in court

The jury was also played voice notes the pair had sent one another, commenting on the media coverage the incident was receiving.

In one of them, Graham, 39, said to 32-year-old Carruthers: “Someone there has tagged like ITV News, BBC News, Sky News, like News News News”, before adding: “I think it’s going to go wild.”

Please use Chrome browser for a more accessible video player

Sycamore Gap seeds saved

Another piece of evidence was a photo of the defendants felling a different tree, about a month before the Sycamore Gap was cut down.

The prosecution said Graham, who owned a groundworks company and Carruthers, who worked in property management and mechanics, were “friends with knowledge and experience in chainsaws and tree felling”.

From the beginning, much of the trial focused on the significance of the tree, with Judge Mrs Justice Lambert telling the jury to put their “emotion to one side” before proceedings began.

Please use Chrome browser for a more accessible video player

Voicenotes from Sycamore Gap tree trial

‘Mindless acts of violence’

Northumberland Superintendent Kevin Waring, of Northumbria Police, said: “We often hear references made to mindless acts of vandalism – but that term has never been more relevant than today in describing the actions of those individuals”.

Graham and Carruthers gave no explanation for why they targeted the tree, he said, “and there never could be a justifiable one”.

Northumbria Police and Crime Commissioner, Susan Dungworth, called the felling of the tree “unfathomable” and said, although “there was no remorse [from the defendants], there was compelling evidence, and now there will be justice”.

Gale Gilchrist, chief crown prosecutor for CPS North East, said Graham and Carruthers took “under three minutes” to bring down the “iconic landmark” in a “deliberate and mindless act of destruction”.

She said she hoped the community “can take some measure of comfort in seeing those responsible convicted”.

‘Enormity of the loss’

Reflecting on the verdict and the actions of the pair, Tony Gates, chief executive of Northumberland National Parks Authority, said: “It just took a few days to sink in – I think because of the enormity of the loss.

“We knew how important that location was for many people at an emotional level, almost at a spiritual level in terms of people’s connection to this case.”

Please use Chrome browser for a more accessible video player

Moment Sycamore Gap tree cut down

Read more from the trial:
Two men went on ‘moronic mission’ to fell Sycamore Gap tree

Man told police he was being ‘framed’ over tree felling
Defendant says friend wanted to cut down world’s ‘most famous tree’
Jurors played voicenotes in Sycamore Gap tree trial

The tree’s stump still sits by Hadrian’s Wall, where new shoots have been emerging.

Its largest remaining section will go on display at the National Landscape Discovery Centre in the Northumberland National Park later this year.

The effort to preserve the tree’s legacy also goes beyond the region where it stood.

Forty-nine saplings taken from the tree have been conserved by the National Trust. They will be planted in accessible public spaces across the country as “trees of hope”, which will allow parts of the Sycamore Gap to live on.

The defendants, who didn’t react when the verdicts were delivered, will be sentenced in July.

Continue Reading

Trending