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When Emma’s three-year-old son was diagnosed with a brain tumour, money was the last thing on her mind.

With the tumour wrapped around his optic nerve – meaning it can never be removed – the kind and sociable toddler will need treatment on and off for the next 18 years of his life.

“The bottom just fell out of our world, we thought we were never going to be happy again,” she told Sky News.

After 18 months of gruelling chemotherapy, the family now face the stark reality of coping with Seb’s cancer amid a rising cost of living and an ever-diminishing household income.

“Initially you think the diagnosis is horrendous emotionally but then it hits you, financially how do we make this work?” Emma Grimwood-Bird said.

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Seb, with mum Emma

The cost of cancer in children

Charity Young Lives Vs Cancer estimates cancer in children and young people costs families an extra £730 a month.

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Seb is fed using a feeding tube but is allergic to the hospital’s feed solution, so the family have to buy him high-calorie food that is easily blendable.

“I noticed the other day that something that used to cost me £8 – a cream and salmon thing – has gone up to £9.95,” Emma said.

“We probably spend an extra £30 or £40 a week on what he needs.

“For the first time, I am having to take things out of the basket and accommodate the rest of us around his nutritional needs.

“Which we are happy to do but it’s not something we have ever had to do before.”

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The family also face a £300-a-month increase on their mortgage come January, as well as an electricity bill that has almost doubled, rising from £120 to £217.

“We know our mortgage is going up, but when we get to January we are not sure how it’s going to play out. I think we’re just putting our heads in the sand and saying, ‘We’ll manage, we’ll manage’.

“But now it’s getting to the point where we are thinking, how are we going to manage?”

While Seb is stable at the moment, she said the “fear is always there” that he may get sicker, and either she or her husband will have to leave their job to care for him.

Emma has already used up her allotted sick pay, meaning any additional time off is unpaid.

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Seb, with his family – including his younger brother Will

“I thought there would be some sort of support if you can no longer work if your child is sick. But there is no protection at all.

“We have really tried to keep our employers on side, but there is only so far they will go. “

They get £300-a-month disability living allowance, which just about covers the cost of the additional car they need to take Seb to his appointments – at a hospital an hour away.

“I never have I thought about I would be someone that would receive benefits ever,” she said.

“But we didn’t ask that for our son to get a brain tumour and as much as you are dealing with the emotional side of it, you have to have the financial conversations as well.”

Rachel Kirby-Rider, chief executive of Young Lives vs Cancer, said: “We are witnessing the worst cost of living crisis we have seen in recent memory, and the young cancer patients and families we support are having to deal with the uncontrollable costs of cancer alongside the fear a cancer diagnosis brings.

“They are left having to make impossible choices, deciding between putting the heating on to keep their child warm or paying for petrol to get to hospital for treatment; getting the food their child desperately craves while on chemotherapy or buying a warm coat.”

The charity has introduced a crisis fund, offering grants to families and young people in greatest need this winter, alongside offering emotional support.

Seb, with mum Emma, in hospital
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Seb, with mum Emma, in hospital

Less than 100 cases a year

For Katherine Lichten, from Suffolk, it’s a familiar story.

Their “whole world was turned upside down” when three-year-old Teddy, feared initially to need surgery for appendicitis, was found to have a cancerous mass which had metastasised on his hips, spine and bone marrow.

Teddy’s cancer is rare – there are less than 100 cases a year in the UK and only 40% of those diagnosed survive five years.

The train-obsessed little boy – whose favourite thing to do is go to the local station and spot the engines – has now been isolated from his friends due to infection concerns.

Katherine said: “He’s very curious, he likes to know what’s going on, and he likes to ask the nurses what medication it is – you can’t get anything by him.”

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Teddy, post diagnosis

Unable to return to work

Katherine was due to return to work in January at the end of her maternity leave for Teddy’s eight-month-old brother Rupert.

But because of Teddy’s cancer, she won’t be able to go back until this time next year.

“My only income is £140-a-month child benefit,” she said.

As their income goes down, their costs have gone up – including their mortgage, which is now up £200 a month.

“Our budget for food has stayed the same but every week we are getting less and less for our money,” she said.

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Teddy, three, at the start of treatment

“It’s very difficult to do food shopping when you have got a child who is seriously ill.”

Teddy also requires multiple hospital visits, which costs the family £12 a day on public transport, or £30 per journey if they need to take a more urgent taxi.

The family is fundraising for medical treatment abroad, hoping to get him specialised treatment in the US.

But the weakening of the pound against the dollar means they need to raise even more to be successful.

Teddy, 3, with mum Katherine, and younger brother Rupert
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Teddy with mum Katherine, and younger brother Rupert

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The lack of support for parents of children with cancer is what spurred Ceri Menai-Davis to set up his charity, It’s Never You.

His six-year-old son, Hugh, died from a rare form of cancer in September last year.

He said parents are forced to rely heavily on charities – including his own, which has an app to provide advice for those “at the coalface”.

Currently, parents can claim universal credit (if they don’t have above a certain amount in savings or a job), disability living allowance, carers allowance and 18 weeks unpaid leave taken in four-week chunks across the year.

Hugh inspired his parents to set up a charity to give support to parents
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Hugh inspired his parents to set up a charity to give support to parents

“You are constantly fighting against this waterfall,” he said.

“I’m now the other side of it – the sad side of it – but the stress of it, and then having no money on top.

“Having been there, I know the cost of everything and what you want to do for your child.

“The three things we have to do to look after our child is to feed them, heat them and take them to hospital. And those three key elements have gone up in price by at least 20%. And for some parents, there is no support, so it’s adding an extra burden to an already awful time.”

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Hundreds of barbers, car washes and American sweet shops raided in money laundering crackdown

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Hundreds of barbers, car washes and American sweet shops raided in money laundering crackdown

Hundreds of barber shops and other cash-heavy businesses have been targeted in a three-week money laundering blitz.

Police went to 265 premises, including vape shops, nail bars, American-themed sweet shops and car washes across England in a crackdown on high street crime.

The National Crime Agency (NCA) said 35 arrests were made, 97 people suspected to be victims of modern slavery were placed under police protection, and bank accounts containing more than £1m were frozen.

More than £40,000 in cash, some 200,000 cigarettes, 7,000 packs of tobacco, and more than 8,000 illegal vapes were also seized during Operation Machinize, which involved 19 different police forces and regional organised crime units.

Officers also found two cannabis farms containing a total of 150 plants, while 10 shops have been shut down.

The NCA estimates that £12bn of criminal cash is generated in the UK each year with businesses such as barber shops, vape shops, nail bars, American-themed sweet shops and car washes often used by criminals.

Goods seized during their visit to a vape shop in Rochdale.
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Goods seized during a visit to a vape shop in Rochdale. Pic: GMP/PA

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Police officers at a shop in Tameside. Pic: GMP/PA

Rachael Herbert, deputy director of the National Economic Crime Centre at the NCA, said: “Operation Machinize targeted barber shops and other high street businesses being used as cover for a whole range of criminality, all across the country.

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“We have seen links to drug trafficking and distribution, organised immigration crime, modern slavery and human trafficking, firearms, and the sale of illicit tobacco and vapes.

“We know cash-intensive businesses are used as fronts for money laundering, facilitating some of the highest harm and highest impact offending in the UK.”

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Money laundering crackdown. Pic: NCA

Security minister Dan Jarvis said the operation “highlights the scale and complexity of the criminality our towns and cities face”.

“High street crime undermines our security, our borders, and the confidence of our communities, and I am determined to take the decisive action necessary to bring those responsible to justice,” he said.

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Kara Alexander: Dagenham mother who murdered her two young sons in the bath jailed

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Kara Alexander: Dagenham mother who murdered her two young sons in the bath jailed

A skunk-smoking mother who murdered her two young sons in the bath while in a psychotic state has been jailed for life with a minimum term of more than 21 years.

Kara Alexander was found guilty of drowning Elijah Thomas, two, and Marley Thomas, five, at the home they shared in Dagenham, east London, in December 2022.

Alexander, 47, who had denied two counts of murder, was convicted at Kingston Crown Court in February.

Post-mortems on the boys found they had either been drowned or suffocated – but Alexander accepted at trial that she had placed them in the bath before they “accidentally” drowned.

Returning to Kingston Crown Court on Friday, Mr Justice Bennathan sentenced Alexander to life imprisonment with a minimum term of 21 years and 252 days.

The judge referred to the children’s father finding his deceased sons next to one another as “the stuff of nightmares”.

Mr Justice Bennathan said: “On the evening of 15 December 2022, you’d been smoking skunk.

“You’d been doing so every night for weeks, probably much longer. At some stage, both the boys were in their pyjamas ready for bed, with Elijah also wearing his nappy.

“You drowned them both by your deliberate acts.”

The judge said Alexander “unspeakably” held the boys under water for “up to a minute or two”.

“The bath was probably still run from their normal evening routine and I do not think for a moment that your dreadful acts were pre-meditated,” he said.

The judge said Alexander dried the boys, put them in clean pyjamas and laid them together, tucked in under duvets, on the same bunk bed.

“The next morning, their father, worried by your unusual silence, came and found them. The stuff of nightmares,” he said.

The jury heard how the boys’ father was due to have them that weekend and became increasingly concerned when he had not heard back from Alexander.

When he arrived at their home, she told him the children were upstairs sleeping.

When the father returned downstairs to call for help, Alexander had run away. It took the police around an hour to find her.

The Metropolitan Police said forensic analysis of Alexander’s phone, which had been found in a filled sink, showed it had been in regular use in the run-up to the murders, but on the day the children were found, no calls were made or messages sent.

This led detectives to believe that she had intentionally been avoiding people following their deaths.

Prosecutors said they built their case on showing the boys could not have accidentally drowned and that the only reasonable explanation for their deaths was that Alexander caused them to drown.

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The judge said there was every sign Alexander was a “caring and affectionate” mother to both children before the events of 15 December 2022.

He pointed out that their father said Alexander “never shouted or raised her voice at the boys” and “never showed violence to the boys”.

The judge said: “From all that I have read and seen of you, I have no doubt that every day when you awake you will remember and grieve for the little boys whose lives you snatched away.”

Mr Justice Bennathan said Alexander was in a psychotic state when she killed her sons and that it was cannabis induced.

He said Alexander had a previous psychotic episode in 2016 in which cannabis also probably played a part, but acknowledged he could not be sure she was aware that the drug could trigger another psychotic state.

In his sentencing remarks, Mr Justice Bennathan warned of the dangers of drugs.

He said: “The heavy use of skunk or other hyper-strong strains of cannabis can plunge people into a mental health crisis in which they may harm themselves or others.

“If any drug user does not know that, it’s about time they did.

“At your trial, Kara Alexander, the three psychiatrists who gave evidence disagreed about a number of things, but on that they were unanimous.

“It will comfort nobody connected to this case, but if these events bring home that message to even a few people, some slight good may come from what is otherwise an unmitigated tragedy.”

Detective Chief Inspector Paul Waller, who led the investigation, said: “This is an incredibly tragic case, which has left a father without his two beloved boys and a family without two young brothers.

“Kara Alexander will spend the next two decades behind bars, where the memory of what she has done will haunt her forever.

“To the family and friends of Elijah and Marley, while no amount of time will erase the pain of such a loss, I hope this sentence serves to bring some semblance of justice.

“I hope you can now move on with your life, remembering the boys as you knew them, and treasuring the happy times you spent with them.”

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‘I don’t look at myself as a dying person anymore’: New drug that slows incurable breast cancer now available on the NHS

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'I don't look at myself as a dying person anymore': New drug that slows incurable breast cancer now available on the NHS

A groundbreaking new cancer treatment, hailed by patients as “game-changing”, will be available via the NHS from today.

The drug capivasertib has been shown in trials to slow the spread of the most common form of incurable breast cancer.

Taken in conjunction with an already-available hormonal therapy, it has been shown in trials to double how long treatment will keep the cancer cells from progressing.

“I don’t look at myself anymore as a dying person,” says Elen Hughes, who has been using the drug since February this year.

“I look at myself as a thriving person, who will carry on thriving for as long as I possibly can.”

Ellen Hughes has been using the drug capivasertib
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Elen Hughes says capivasertib has extended her life and improved its quality

Mrs Hughes, from North Wales, was first diagnosed with primary breast cancer in 2008.

Eight years later, then aged 46 and with three young children, she was told the cancer had returned and spread.

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She says that capivasertib, which she has been able to access via private healthcare, has not only extended her life but improved its quality with fewer side effects than previous medications.

It also delays the need for more aggressive blanket treatments like chemotherapy.

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Capivasertib is now available from the NHS

“What people don’t understand is that they might look at the statistics and see that [the therapy] is effective for eight months versus two months, or whatever,” says Mrs Hughes.

“But in cancer, and the land that we live in, really we can do a lot in six months.”

Mrs Hughes says her cancer therapy has allowed her “to see my daughter get married” and believes it is “absolutely brilliant” that the new drug will be available to more patients via the NHS.

The National Institute for Health and Care Excellence approved capivasertib for NHS-use after two decades of research by UK teams.

Professor Nicholas Turner, from the Institute of Cancer Research which led the study, told Sky News it was a “great success story for British science”.

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Professor Nicholas Turner wants urgent genetic testing of patients with advanced breast cancers to see if they could benefit

The new drug is suitable for patients’ tumours with mutations or alterations in the PIK3CA, AKT1 or PTEN genes, which are found in approximately half of patients with advanced breast cancer.

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Prof Turner says hundreds of patients could see the benefit in the immediate future, with thousands more people identified over time.

“We need new drugs that will help our existing therapies work for longer, and that’s where this new drug, capivasertib comes in,” says Prof Turner.

“It doubles how long hormone therapy treatment works for, giving patients precious extra time with their families.”

He called for urgent genetic testing of patients with advanced breast cancers to see if they could benefit.

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