“He would make remarks about household objects making a good murder weapon, other comments to do with getting rid of me, getting what I deserved.”
At first, she says, she didn’t take seriously those comments by her then-husband.
“It wasn’t until the relationship fully ended that I actually understood how much danger I was actually in and how abnormal and dangerous the comments were.”
They were a feature of a relationship, she alleges, that was a story of domestic abuse and sexual violence.
And the alleged perpetrator, her ex-husband, is a serving police officer.
For 19 months, since she first reported the abuse, she says his employer West Yorkshire Police has refused to investigate her allegations of domestic abuse.
“It’s been an uphill battle to even have them take anything seriously. It makes you feel worthless when you’ve come from that sort of relationship, it kind of reinforces that feeling of my words don’t matter.
“If anything, I wouldn’t feel safe calling 999 because I wouldn’t trust, given what’s happened, that they would even bother coming out at all.”
She has asked not to be identified for her safety.
She said domestic violence that began with “slamming things, shouting, belittling, name-calling” escalated to having items thrown at her and having to hide in a room from her partner. She also alleges sexual violence.
After being contacted by Sky News, West Yorkshire Police said it couldn’t discuss the case in detail.
In a statement, the force added: “We encourage anyone who is a victim of domestic abuse to contact us.
“Allegations are taken seriously, including allegations involving West Yorkshire Police officers and staff and will always be fully investigated.
“A West Yorkshire Police Officer has been suspended as part of the enquiry and the matter has been referred to the Independent Office for Police Conduct.
“West Yorkshire Police is absolutely committed to tackling violence against women and girls and to robustly investigating all allegations of sexual violence and domestic abuse.”
The woman said she was prompted to speak out after seeing the video of the arrest of Metropolitan Police officer David Carrick – later jailed for life for dozens of offences against women – in which he tells arresting officers about his police service.
“At the end of the day, a police perpetrator is actually the most dangerous type of perpetrator. It’s a scary place to be where you feel that nobody’s on the other side of that phone to come and help you. It’s petrifying.”
In January, the National Police Chiefs’ Council wrote to all chief constables in England and Wales asking them to take immediate action to identify any intelligence or allegations about officers that needed further investigation.
However, the woman said: “All these forces say they’re taking it seriously, but they’re actually not… and I’m a prime example in the current climate, they’re not taking it seriously at all.”
An amber warning has been issued for snow in a part of the UK, likely to cause travel delays and “stranding some vehicles and passengers”.
The warning, which covers south west England, also warns some rural communities could become cut off and is in place until 2pm this evening.
There is also a yellow weather warning for snow covering the southern counties of England until midnight on Wednesday.
The warning stretches from Kent to Cornwall and up to south London and the Met Office said between 2cm and 5cm of snow could accumulate fairly widely, with as much as 10cm over higher ground.
This week is expected to see the coldest nights of the year, with temperatures potentially reaching -14C on Wednesday night and -16C on Thursday night, both in the North East of England and Scotland, the Met Office said.
Weather warnings issued on Tuesday for snow and ice covering the parts of Wales, the North West of England, west and northern parts of Scotland as well as Northern Ireland will remain in place until midnight tomorrow.
The forecaster said some roads and railways are likely to be affected and there could be icy patches on untreated roads.
Meanwhile the Environment Agency has said at least 300 properties have flooded across England since New Year’s Eve. It estimates more than 41,000 properties have been protected.
Heavy rainfall over the New Year caused significant river and surface water flooding across the North West of England and Yorkshire and snowmelt has brought further disruption to parts of England, particularly the Midlands, the agency said.
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Floods minister Emma Hardy said: “My sympathies go out to the people, businesses and communities impacted by the recent flooding across the country.
“I want to express my heartfelt thanks for the vital work that the Environment Agency and emergency services are doing to keep people safe. People must continue to follow their advice and sign up for flood warnings.”
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Some 100 flood warnings were in force across England on Wednesday, with people urged to remain vigilant over the coming days.
A danger-to-life warning was issued on Tuesday morning for the River Soar near Barrow upon Soar, Leicestershire, but was later removed.
People living in caravan parks in the area were urged by the Environment Agency to act, with a large-scale evacuation needed to save lives.
Firefighters have rescued dozens of people across Leicestershire since Monday, Leicestershire Fire and Rescue Service said.
Hundreds of schools were closed across the UK, with road and rail links blocked, as Manchester, Bristol and Liverpool John Lennon airports suspended flights because of the conditions.
UK Athletics Ltd and a former head of sport for a major London games have been charged with manslaughter following the death of Paralympian Abdullah Hayayei, the Crown Prosecution Service said.
United Arab Emirates athlete Mr Hayayei died aged 36 after a metal throwing cage fell on him while he was shot put training at Newham Leisure Centre in London in 2017.
The Paralympian was pronounced dead at the scene after he was struck by a metal pole in the incident.
He was training in preparation to represent his country in the shot put, discus and javelin at the World Para Athletics Championships which began in London later that week.
Teams and coaches from several nations were present at the time of the tragedy.
Keith Davies, 77, the former head of sport for the 2017 World Para Athletics Championships, has been charged with gross negligence manslaughter and a health and safety offence.
UK Athletics has been charged with corporate manslaughter and a Health and Safety at Work Act offence.
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Both UK Athletics and Davies are due to appear at Westminster Magistrates’ Court on Friday 31 January.
Malcolm McHaffie, head of the CPS Special Crime Division, said: “The Crown Prosecution Service reminds everyone that criminal proceedings are active and both UK Athletics Ltd and Davies have the right to a fair trial.
“It is extremely important that there be no reporting, commentary or sharing of information online which could in any way prejudice these proceedings.”
The Met Police launched an investigation following Mr Hayayei’s death on 11 July 2017, with the Crown Prosecution Service saying today that it has authorised charges following a review of evidence provided by the force.
Mr Hayayei made his Paralympic debut in Rio de Janeiro in 2016 and was set to feature in his second World Championships in 2017.
Ed Warner, who was co-chair of London 2017, said after Mr Hayayei’s death: “This is a devastating event and everyone within the London 2017 Organising Committee is shocked and saddened.
“We will be working closely with all the competitors and teams over the days ahead to offer support wherever it is needed.”
The 14-year-old who was stabbed to death on a bus in southeast London yesterday has been named as Kelyan Bokassa.
He was stabbed to death on a bus in Woolwich Church Street, close to the Woolwich Ferry, just before 2.30pm on Tuesday.
The teenager died at the scene shortly after medical help arrived.
No arrests have been made so far but officers are appealing for witnesses who were on the 472 bus.
Police called the stabbing a “horrific attack”.
Detective Chief Inspector Martin Thorpe, who is leading the investigation, said: “Following Kelyan’s tragic death yesterday, specialist officers are now leading the investigation which is progressing at pace.
“If anyone saw this horrific attack or was in the area then I urge them to come forward and speak to officers.
“We’re particularly interested in any mobile phone footage that captured this incident or any dash cam or doorbell footage from around the surrounding area at the time of this incident.”
This breaking news story is being updated and more details will be published shortly.