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Christian author and social researcher Shaunti Feldhahn has debunked the urban myth that there is a 50 percent divorce rate in the United States.

“When I started looking at the Census Bureau tables and CDC tables, and the Bureau of Vital Statistics that’s when I was like ‘wait a minute this does not match the narrative at all,'” Feldhahn told KLOVE in a recent interview.Although she once believed the myth herself, Feldhahn ended up conducting extensive research for eight years on the subject, CBN News reports.

“The reason it took eight years is that it is insanely complicated,” she noted. “There’s no one right number.”

Why? Because it kind of depends: like, is the rate of divorce the percentage of people who will get divorced in the future? Or is it the people who already are?”

In light of the research, Feldhahn compiled them altogether in her book The Good News About Marriage: Debunking Discouraging Myths about Marriage and Divorce.

“Seventy-one percent of people are still married to their first spouse,” she explained, which leaves 29 percent, but “that’s not the true story either. Because that includes everybody who was married for 50 years and their spouse died.”

Regarding the death of a spouse, Feldhahn contended that the actual divorce rate is not greater than 25 percent.

“At one time, a 50 percent divorce rate in the future was actually a reasonable projection,” she said. No-fault divorce entered the U.S. courts in 1972, which led to an explosion of divorces. Demographers of the day got really concerned and said, ‘Oh my goodness if this trend keeps up, we’re going to hit a 50 percent divorce rate someday.'”

“But just a few short years later, in 1980, the divorce rate began to trend down,” Feldman explained. “We never got close to hitting the 50 percent projectionand that is what has not been corrected in the public opinion.”

According to statistics compiled by Forbes, more people get married in the span of each year than get divorced.

In 2021, a total of 689,308 marriages across 45 U.S. states ended in divorce. In that same year, 1,985,072 couples got married, making the nations marriage rate 6 per 1,000 people.

Feldhan also noted that the ages of couples getting married is one factor in the divorce rate.

“People are getting married at slightly older ages and when you get married very young, those people have a higher divorce rate risk,” she told KLOVE.

For instance, couples who marry after 25 are 50 percent least likely to get divorced than those who get married at 20.

Feldhahn also debunked the myth that there is a high divorce rate among those who remarried after a divorce or death of a spouse.

“My senior researcher, Tally Whitehead, and I spent three years trying to find the studies underneath that number,” she explained. “We were very thorough we went through all the different citations and news reports and websites and they all trace back to three sources that don’t exist.”

In Feldhahns book, she shared that the divorce rate among active in their church is 27 to 50 percent less that non-church goers. In a December 2022 interview, she told CBN News she hopes people would be aware of the truth about marriage and share it.

“We need to change the paradigm of how we talk about marriage from marriage being in trouble and all this discouraging stuff to saying, ‘No, wait. Most marriages are strong and happy for a lifetime,'” she told CBN News. “That makes a total difference to a couple who can now say, ‘You know what? Most people get through this and we can, too.'”

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Milton Quintanilla is a freelance writer and content creator. He is a contributing writer for Christian Headlines and the host of the For Your Soul Podcast, a podcast devoted to sound doctrine and biblical truth. He holds a Masters of Divinity from Alliance Theological Seminary.

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Russia has been accused by European governments of escalating hybrid attacks on Ukraine’s Western allies after two fibre-optic telecommunication cables in the Baltic Sea were severed.

Russia is systematically attacking European security architecture,” the foreign ministers of the UK, France, Germany, Italy and Poland said in a joint statement.

“Moscow’s escalating hybrid activities against NATO and EU countries are also unprecedented in their variety and scale, creating significant security risks.”

The statement was not made in direct response to the cutting of the cables, Reuters reported, citing two European security sources.

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Germany’s defence minister Boris Pistorius said: “No one believes that these cables were cut accidentally.”

He added: “We also have to assume, without knowing it yet, that it is sabotage.”

Investigations have been launched into the destruction of the cables earlier this week.

One linked Finland and Germany while the other connected Sweden and Lithuania.

Russia has repeatedly denied it has sabotaged European infrastructure and has accused the West of making such claims to damage Russian interests.

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One cable was damaged on Sunday morning and the other went out of service on Monday.

The Swedish Prosecution Authority has launched a preliminary criminal investigation into the damaged cables on suspicion of possible sabotage.

The country’s civil defence minister Carl-Oskar Bohlin said its armed forces and coastguard had picked up ship movements corresponding with the damage to the cables.

“We of course take this very seriously against the background of the serious security situation,” he said.

Finland’s National Bureau of Investigation said it had also launched an investigation, but Sweden would lead the probe.

NATO’s Maritime Centre for the Security of Critical Undersea Infrastructure was working closely with allies in the investigation, an official said.

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It is not the first time such infrastructure has been damaged in the Baltic Sea.

In September 2022, three Nord Stream gas pipelines between Russia and Germany were destroyed seven months after Moscow invaded Ukraine.

No one took responsibility for the blasts and while some Western officials initially blamed Moscow, which the Kremlin denied, US and German media reported pro-Ukrainian actors may have been responsible.

The companies owning the two cables damaged earlier this week have said it was not yet clear what caused the outages.

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ST. PETERSBURG, Fla. — A combination of severe hurricane damage to Tropicana Field and political delays on financing means it is highly unlikely the Tampa Bay Rays‘ planned new stadium will be ready for the 2028 season, if at all, the team said Tuesday.

Rays top executives said in a letter to the Pinellas County Commission that the team has already spent $50 million for early work on the new $1.3 billion ballpark and cannot proceed further because of delays in approval of bonds for the public share of the costs.

“The Rays organization is saddened and stunned by this unfortunate turn of events” said the letter, signed by co-presidents Brian Auld and Matt Silverman, who noted that the overall project was previously approved by the County Commission and the City of St. Petersburg.

“As we have made clear at every step of this process, a 2029 ballpark delivery would result in significantly higher costs that we are not able to absorb alone,” the letter added.

The tumultuous series of events came after Hurricane Milton ripped the roof off Tropicana Field on Oct. 9, forcing the Rays to play the 2025 season at the spring training home of the New York Yankees, 11,000-seat Steinbrenner Field in Tampa. Then, the Pinellas County Commission postponed a planned Oct. 29 vote on the bond issue that the Rays said has thrown the new 30,000-seat ballpark timeline off.

The commission was meeting again Tuesday on the bond issue, but its chair suggested a vote could be delayed again.

“We know we’re going to be in Steinbrenner in 2025 and we don’t know much beyond that,” Auld said in an interview.

Asked if Major League Baseball can survive long-term in the Tampa Bay area, Rays Principal Owner Stuart Sternberg said the outlook is “less rosy than it was three weeks ago. We’re going to do all that we can, as we’ve tried for 20 years, to keep the Rays here for generations to come.”

The team’s contract with the city of St. Petersburg requires that the Rays play three more seasons at Tropicana Field assuming it is repaired. The cost of fixing the ballpark in time for the 2026 season is pegged at more than $55 million for a building scheduled to be torn down when the new facility is ready.

Under the original plan, Pinellas County would spend about $312.5 million for the new ballpark and the city of St. Petersburg around $417 million including infrastructure improvements. The Rays and their partner, the Hines development company, would cover the remaining costs including any overruns.

It isn’t just baseball that is affected. The new Rays ballpark is part of a larger urban renovation project known as the Historic Gas Plant District, which refers to a predominantly Black neighborhood that was forced out by construction of Tropicana Field and an interstate highway spur.

The broader $6.5 billion project would transform an 86-acre (34-hectare) tract in the city’s downtown, with plans in the coming years for a Black history museum, affordable housing, a hotel, green space, entertainment venues, and office and retail space. There’s the promise of thousands of jobs as well.

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