A British father whose son has not been seen since he went missing in Ibiza four years ago has told of the “never-ending nightmare” and “absolute torture” Jay Slater’s parents will be going through.
Mark Garland’s son Ben had been out for a ride on his Harley Davidson motorbike to film waves near Portinatx on the north of the island before he disappeared on 21 January 2020.
His jacket was found in the water three days later, and Mr Garland believes his son was swept out to sea.
The disappearance of British teenager Mr Slater, who was last seen in northern Tenerife on Monday 17 June, has reminded Mr Garland of the “traumatic” days he experienced when his own son first went missing.
Reflecting on his own experience of arriving in Ibiza after Ben went missing, Mr Garland told Sky News: “It’s the not knowing, it’s a never-ending nightmare, it’s torture, absolute torture. It’s something I wouldn’t wish on anybody.
“Jay’s parents will be feeling empty, they’re going to be tired. They will be confused, they will just be wanting answers.
“It’s such a traumatic experience.”
Asked if he had any advice for Mr Slater’s parents, he said: “I would tell them never give up and to get some sleep, that’s the main thing. I didn’t sleep properly, I was absolutely worn out every single day, physically and emotionally.
“I hope and pray Jay is found safe and well.”
Image: Jay Slater and his mother Debbie Duncan. Pic: Lucy Law
Mr Garland, who lives in the Wiltshire village of Southwick, said that during a three to four-week period in the search for Ben, police found around 20 bodies in the water, but not one of them was his son.
Ben had been working as a deckhand on a luxury yacht at the time he went missing and was known to many of the locals in Ibiza.
Mr Garland says he visits the island once a year to speak with them and remember his son.
Speaking about his years-long struggle with grief, the bus driver said: “It’s a pain you can’t describe to anybody. Unless that person is going through something similar. I struggle to get out of bed every day.
“Work is my best therapy, because I know I have to get up, because I know I have to pay bills and everything else.
“But when I’m not working, I struggle to get out of bed. I know I need counselling, but I’m too stubborn.
“I’m not over it and I never will be.”
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Jay Slater’s dad: ‘Police not telling us what they’re doing’
Mr Garland praised the efforts of police in Ibiza and said they “never gave up” on his son.
He now organises a yearly motorbike event called “Ride To The Tide: The Ben Garland Memorial Run” – which raises money for the Royal National Lifeboat Institution (RNLI).
Mr Garland said: “It’s just our way of memorialising Ben and remembering him. It’s one of my happy days of the year.”
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Mr Slater had been holidaying with friends in southern Tenerife before travelling to the northwestern mountain village of Masca with two people he met at the NRG music festival on Sunday 16 June.
The teenager, from Oswaldtwistle near Blackburn in Lancashire, told a friend over the phone at 8:30am the following morning that he was walking back to his holiday accommodation after missing a bus – a journey that would take 11 hours on foot.
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The pair have each been charged with murder and attempting to defeat the ends of justice.
The suspects, both of Greenock, made no plea to the two separate charges last week and were remanded in custody ahead of their next court appearance.
A 45-year-old man previously arrested in connection with assault and a 41-year-old man arrested at the same time as the two women have both been released pending further enquiries.
Police Scotland previously said officers investigating Mr Best’s death were carrying out enquiries into a report of a disturbance in Lansbury Street, Greenock, which took place between 11pm on 10 November and 3am on 11 November.
A force spokesperson said: “Enquiries are ongoing.”
Sir Keir Starmer has called the pile of fly-tipped illegal waste next to a river in Oxfordshire “utterly appalling” and said “all available powers” will be used to make those responsible cover the cost of the clean-up.
Liberal Democrat leader Sir Ed Davey said the pile of rubbish in a field beside the River Cherwell in Kidlington is now 150m long and up to 12m high, adding that water is “now lapping against the waste and carrying it into the river”.
Speaking at PMQs, Sir Ed said it is just one of many sites where organised criminal gangs are “illegally dumping their waste onto our countryside and getting away with it”.
“This is a shocking environmental emergency. So will he instruct the Environment Agency to clean it up now?” Sir Ed added.
Sir Keir responded in the House of Commons on Wednesday, calling the scenes “utterly appalling”.
The prime minister said: “A criminal investigation, as he knows, is under way. Specialist officers are tracking down those responsible.
“The Environmental Agency, in answer to this question, will use all available powers to make sure that the perpetrators cover the cost of the clean-up, which must now follow.”
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UK’s ‘biggest ecological disaster’
Sir Keir added: “We have boosted the Environment Agency’s budget for tackling waste crime by 50%, giving councils new powers to seize and crush fly-tippers, vehicles and lawbreakers can now face up to five years in jail.”
Earlier this week, Calum Miller, Liberal Democrat MP for Bicester and Woodstock, said recent heavy rainfall brought by Storm Claudia at the weekend had made the situation more urgent, and meant the rubbish was slowly floating towards the river, which eventually flows through Oxford and feeds the Thames.
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Mr Miller also told Sky News on Sunday it was the first time he had seen anything on this scale, questioning whether the Environmental Agency had the resources to deal with it.
The cost of removing the waste is estimated to be more than the entire annual budget of the local council, which is about £25m.
With the site on a floodplain, Mr Miller listed what he saw as the three major environmental risks – waste being washed into the waterways, rain seeping through the waste and carrying toxins into the water and the danger of decomposing chemicals presenting a fire risk.
The site is adjacent to the A34, a busy road running through cities including Oxford and Birmingham.
He said the police had used a helicopter with a heat-seeking camera, and could see that some of the waste was beginning to decompose.
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‘Mountain’ of waste dumped
Mr Miller said he believed the Environment Agency was first made aware of the issue back in July.
He said he believed it was the work of “organised criminal gangs” and raised a “bigger systemic problem around the country”, with “dumps are cropping up in more and more places”.
He added: “My concern is the Environmental Agency lacks the resources to deal with criminal activity on this scale. I’m calling on the government to take action and ensure those who are dealing with such incidents have the powers they need to tackle it at source.”
Anna Burns, the Environment Agency’s director for the Thames area, said on Wednesday: “Most of the tipping happened before we were aware of it. As soon as we were aware, we acted quickly and decisively.”
Ms Burns said: “We are pursuing this as a criminal investigation and currently following a number of leads, and we are laser focused on pursing that investigation.
“And we are working with partners to understand the risks associated with the site.”
She said the agency will pursue the perpetrators to make them pay for the “blight on the landscape” they had caused.
An Oasis fan who fell to his death at Wembley Stadium was the victim of a “tragic accident”, a pre-inquest review has heard.
Bournemouth man Lee Claydon, 45, died following the incident at the London venueon 2 August.
Detective Sergeant James Raffin, from the Met Police, said there were “no concerns” from Mr Claydon’s toxicology report.
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He also said that while Mr Claydon had drunk alcohol, this was “expected” and “normal for any of the people attending” the Oasis gig.
The force had also ruled out the possibility of suicide, he said.
He told Barnet Coroner’s Court the police had now completed their investigation into his death
He said: “From a police point of view, this is no longer a criminal prosecution.
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“We do not suspect any third party involvement.
“This, from everything we have seen, was a tragic accident.
“From a police point of view, I would say our investigation is complete.”
Image: Liam Gallagher and Noel Gallagher during the Oasis tour this year. Pic: Reuters
DS Raffin said he was aware the family had concerns over the “circumstances on the night”, and said he would pass these on to officials at Brent Council.
“All I know is there was beer everywhere, it’s slippery, he slipped apparently, we do not know the rest of it, there’s questions about the barriers.”
Brent Council will now review the police report.
Image: Oasis fans on Wembley Way, ahead of the first night of the Oasis Live ’25 tour opening at Wembley Stadium in London. Pic: PA
Mr Claydon, a landscape gardener, fell during a gig that formed part of Oasis’ sell-out Live ’25 reunion tour – their first since splitting in 2009.
The inquest opening, which took place in September, heard that the father-of-three was taken to a medical centre in Wembley after the fall, where he was pronounced dead at 10.38pm.
A post-mortem examination on 6 August gave his preliminary medical cause of death as “multiple bodily injuries”.
Senior Coroner Andrew Walker told the review hearing the full inquest will take place on 26 February next year.
He said: “It looks like we are going to be in a position next February to have reports from the London Borough of Brent over the circumstances and also we will have by then the police investigation report.”
Oasis previously said in a statement: “We are shocked and saddened to hear of the tragic death of a fan at the show.
“Oasis would like to extend our sincere condolences to the family and friends of the person involved.”
In a statement at the time of the fall, a Wembley spokesperson said: “The stadium operates to a very high health and safety standard, fully meeting legal requirements for the safety of spectators and staff, and is certified to and compliant with the ISO 45001 standard.
“We work very closely and collaboratively with all relevant event delivery stakeholders – including event owners, local authorities, the Sports Grounds Safety Authority and the police – to deliver events to high standards of safety, security and service for everyone attending or working in the venue.”