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She seemed perfect, at first. Her CV brimmed with all kinds of qualifications. And she had years of experience caring for vulnerable people.  

As Sarah Whitaker sat at her kitchen table and looked through the paperwork the care agency had sent her, she knew that Tracy was the one she could trust to look after David, her 89-year-old dad.

Retired businessman David Seal suffered a stroke in the summer and needed more and more support at home.

He was taking a daily cocktail of strong prescription medicines and also needed help emptying his catheter bag because going to the toilet had become difficult recently.

“We need somebody experienced in stroke management and catheter care,” said Sarah. “But we also needed somebody who could drive my dad to the town and back. And somebody who was a very good cook.

“My dad chose Tracy and she arrived the next day.”

Social care worker Tracy's profile with Access Care
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Sarah was sent Tracy’s CV and profile by Hampshire-based Access Care

Tracy came by train and, on the journey to David’s home, revealed that she could not drive because there was a problem with her licence.

Sarah saw this as a red flag. But that wasn’t all she was worried about.

“We had to teach her how to open and close the catheter because she had never seen one before. And that was a surprise given her experience.”

It got worse. Tracy couldn’t cook and once served David deep-fried Brussels sprouts for lunch. Sarah was increasingly concerned about the carer’s medicine management skills too.

“She was giving dad pills here there and everywhere. And that’s a problem because if you give my dad a pill, he’ll swallow it. Whatever it is.”

This was far removed from the carer she had read so much about.

Sarah was introduced to Tracy through an introductory care agency, Hampshire-based Access Care. When Sarah got in touch about her concerns, the agency said they were confused too.

They had never had any complaints about Tracy. She was the model carer.

And then one sunny day in early September, as David was being pushed around the village in his wheelchair by his grandchildren, one of them pulled out a mobile phone to capture the happy scene.

“As soon as Tracy saw the camera she stepped out of view as quick as a flash,” said Sarah. “And later my daughter said that it seemed odd that she didn’t want to be on camera.”

The fake carer being pictured with David Seal
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The woman who was looking after David Seal did not want to be pictured

Sarah rang the care agency again, who supplied her with a copy of Tracy’s driving licence. She looked at the video again.

“The image we had from the walk and the person in the driving licence photo were two different people.”

The next morning, Tracy – or whoever she was – packed her bags and left.

Sarah was horrified. She was left wondering who had been in her father’s house for nearly three weeks. It started to fit into place; the shoddy catheter care, the bad cooking and the poor handling of medicines.

She contacted the care agency again, who promptly contacted Tracy, who was adamant that she had been in the house caring for David.

Access Care contacted Hampshire Police. But the response was not what they expected.

A police constable replied on 4 November with disappointing news. They explained that officers had “limited lines of enquiry” and that because Tracy had denied the allegation, they would need an “independent witness” to confirm the allegation.

They seemed to be saying that they would not investigate, adding that it would be deemed “not in the public interest” to send a police officer to interview Tracy in person at her home, despite having her address.

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Sarah said she only found out later that ‘Tracy’ was ‘two different people’

The police were clearly not interested and showed no signs of investigating. So as part of our investigation into this story, we tracked down Tracy to an address and decided to pay her a visit. To get her side of the story.

I arrived at a large housing estate and saw Tracy backing her car into the drive at the back. I approached her and said I wanted to speak to her about her work as a carer in David’s home.

At first, she said that she had worked very hard to provide the best care but that the family were not happy. She was very clear that she had lived in the home for nearly three weeks. No question about it.

But when I confronted Tracy with the photo evidence from the sunny village walk, her tone changed. She took in deep breath and sighed.

“I don’t know how to explain this,” she said slowly. “It’s so bad. Very bad. I’m sorry.”

Nick Martin speaks to Tracy, a social care worker whose identity was used by a fake carer
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Tracy admitted to Sky News she sent a friend to care for David

Tracy explained to me that she had asked a friend to do the care job in her place, admitting that her friend was not a trained carer. She said nobody had forced her to do it and she had never done anything like this in the past.

She said she thought she could get away with it because the care agency never checked up on her.

“They [the agency] never met me face to face. They have to do more checks to know who is going in the house.”

Tracy, a social care worker, being confronted on a fake carer using her identity
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The real Tracy said her care agency never checked in on her

I show Sarah the video of Tracy and her astonishing admission. “She was knowingly complicit and sent an untrained carer – a complete stranger – into the house of a vulnerable elderly man who is very ill. The nerve of the woman!”

Sarah did some research and reached out to the care regulator, the Care Quality Commission (CQC). But to her surprise, they said they could not help.

They don’t regulate introductory care agencies like the one Sarah used to hire Tracy.

“I thought it was absolutely incredible that the CQC were not involved and I was very surprised to discover that agencies like this send carers all over the the place but aren’t regulated in any way.”

Fully managed care is regulated by the CQC, while introductory agencies use self-employed carers
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Fully managed care is regulated by the CQC, while introductory agencies – like Access Care – use self-employed carers

One of the reasons why the deception was picked up on so quickly is that Sarah lives next door to her dad. And so, we got around to talk to David and I asked him how he felt about having a stranger looking after him.

“I feel very cross about it. I feel fooled and misled,” he said. But David is also clear about another point: regulation. Or lack of it.

“There’s no point in being responsible for the care industry if you’re only dealing with people who are registered with you. It is quite pointless.”

A spokesperson for the Care Quality Commission told Sky News: “We appreciate the distress this incident has caused both Mr Seal and Mrs Whitaker, however as neither introductory agencies or self-employed carers are covered by CQC’s remit we are unable to take action in this case.

“These matters should be reported in the first instance to the local authority safeguarding team who have the remit to investigate the issue and take necessary action.

“Any questions regarding the legal framework for how health and social care is regulated in England is a matter for the government.”

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David said CQC not regulating the introductory agencies is ‘pointless’

The care sector is big business. Home care services are worth over £12bn per year and rising, according to healthcare analysts LaingBuisson.

The government has written to Chief Executives of adult social care services telling them of their so-called ‘home first’ approach to healthcare, which supports people to live independently at home rather than being cared for in hospital. Just like the kind of care David was receiving.

And as winter comes and pressure increases on the NHS, these kinds of services are relied on more than ever.

“If you can’t guarantee that the person you’re expecting is the person you get then I think the system is very flawed,” Sarah tells me.

A Department of Health and Social Care spokesperson told Sky News: “Our sympathies are with David’s family and friends in this deeply concerning case.

“This government inherited a social care system in crisis. We are committed to building a National Care Service – underpinned by national standards and delivered locally – to improve the consistency of care and ensure everyone can live an independent and dignified life.”

“A healthy NHS and social care system requires strong regulation to ensure patient and user safety and that’s why we are reforming the Care Quality Commission to make sure it is fit for purpose.”

Access Care CEO Tiggy Bradshaw also told Sky News: “We were shocked to hear of this terrible deception and are deeply sorry for what Mr Seal and his family have experienced.

“When we heard of these alarming allegations, we contacted Action Fraud and the police and commenced an urgent safeguarding review. We have been in close touch with the family throughout and will continue to collaborate with the police.

“We have strict protocols in place however these extremely unusual circumstances have given us cause for reflection.

“We are in the process of developing further security checks and procedures for families in receipt of care at home.”

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Several days after approaching Hampshire Police for comment, a spokesperson told us they were looking into the case, adding: “Officers are carrying out a number of enquiries and the incident is still under investigation to determine whether any crimes have been committed.”

Sarah meanwhile says she has been left deeply concerned by the incident.

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‘If the system can be played this easily, then the system needs to change,’ Sarah said

“We knew nothing about this person who was in my dad’s home. For all I know she could have been an axe murderer,” she told Sky News.

“The fact that the carer was able to get away with it for as long as she did put the entire system in doubt.

“If the system can be played this easily, then the system needs to change.”

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Welsh government can’t guarantee lives won’t be lost in another coal tip disaster

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It is “difficult” to give a “cast iron guarantee” that lives won’t be lost because of a coal tip disaster, the deputy first minister of Wales has told Sky News.  

Nearly 60 years since the Aberfan disaster, which killed 144 people when coal waste slid down the side of a mountain into a school, £130m has been invested in securing waste left behind by coal mining operations.

Earlier this year, the Welsh government said up to £600m could be needed to secure coal tips across the nation.

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Rescuers search for bodies in the aftermath of the Aberfan disaster, October 1966. Pic: AP
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Rescuers search for bodies in the aftermath of Aberfan disaster, Oct 1966. Pic: AP

Olivia White, who lives beneath a disused coal heap in Cwmtillery that has been deemed a potential risk to public safety, says she is living with “horrific fear every day, waking up thinking we’re lucky we’re here again today”.

Ms White’s home was one of around 40 evacuated when part of the coal tip collapsed last year. She says she will never forget opening the door and “thick, dirty sludge pouring through”.

Huw Irranca-Davies visits residents in Cwmtillery. Pic: Welsh government
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Huw Irranca-Davies visits residents in Cwmtillery. Pic: Welsh government

She warned: “I think it is going to take somebody to die or something awful to happen until they realise how serious this is. That’s what it feels like. Aberfan just lingers over me all the time”.

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Her neighbour, Zara Cotterell, says it was “very lucky” that children weren’t playing outside at that time.

She says: “It was 7.30pm, if it was 5.30pm the street above would have had all the children playing; it took a car, it took a garage, it would have taken lives.”

Work is under way to secure the tip at Cwmtillery, which could collapse again, but both women say they feel “no one is listening” to them.

Resident Rob Scholes, 75, moves through mud at the site of a mudslide, in the aftermath of Storm Bert, in Cwmtillery, South Wales, Britain, November 25, 2024. REUTERS/Hollie Adams
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Rob Scholes, 75, moves through mud at the site of a mudslide in Cwmtillery, South Wales

There are 2,573 disused coal tips across Wales, 360 of which are categorised as having a potential impact on public safety.

Deputy First Minister Huw Irranca-Davies says he can give people an “absolute guarantee” that no expense is being spared to fix the problem.

However, he said it is “pretty difficult” to give a “cast iron guarantee” that people are safe.

“It’s an almost impossible question,” he said.

A view shows cars on a street affected by a mudslide, in the aftermath of Storm Bert, in Cwmtillery, South Wales, Britain, November 25, 2024. REUTERS/Hollie Adams
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Cars on a street affected by a mudslide, in the aftermath of Storm Bert, in Cwmtillery last November

Mr Irranca-Davies said the Welsh government has spent the last five years assessing which tips are the most high risk and work is starting to secure them.

He added that the £600m figure is a long-term goal to totally clear the tips, not all of which are high risk.

In the autumn budget, the UK government provided the Welsh government with £25m for essential work on disused coal tips. The Welsh finance minister Mark Drakeford is seeking a £91m commitment over three years from Westminster.

Mr Irranca-Davies says it is “great” that “after years of asking” there has been a contribution from the UK government.

Wales Secretary Jo Stevens says she wants people to feel reassured that coal tips are being inspected regularly and the “significant sum of money” given in the autumn budget will deal with the risks.

Plaid Cymru says the £25m from Westminster falls short of what should be paid, adding that Wales “can’t afford to wait for a tragedy to happen”.

Delyth Jewell, a member of the Senedd for South Wales East, says the coal tips are “ticking time bombs” and “Westminster should be paying to clear these tips”.

“Money, it’s not a question of [it] should be found. Money has to be found because this is correcting a historic injustice that should never have happened,” she said.

“And if they can’t prioritise clearing the coal tips in the valleys, who do they even represent? Who do they stand for?

“The legacy of Aberfan hangs over these communities.”

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Pupils and teachers voice fears over ‘staggering’ decision to remove specialist police officers from London schools

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London schools are at risk of “increased violence” and “gang exploitation” following the decision to remove specialist police officers, headteachers have told Sky News.

Education leaders are “urging” the Metropolitan Police to reconsider a decision to transfer 371 safer schools officers into neighbourhood policing teams next month.

Teachers warn pupils will be at “greater risk” of violence as a result – and some students told Sky News they were worried “more knives” and “more drugs” would be brought into schools.

Safer schools officers were introduced into London schools in 2009, where they help de-escalate peer-on-peer conflict and prevent youth involvement in crime.

In a letter obtained by Sky News, a group of 15 headteachers from secondary schools in northeast London have written to the Met Police warning that “without the support of safer school officers, vulnerable students may become prey to exploitation and, in turn, perpetrators of crime”.

Sam Jones, chair of The Waltham Forest Secondary Heads group, which wrote the letter, said teachers were “extremely concerned” about the withdrawal of safer school officers and they had not been consulted about the decision.

Sam Jones, chair of The Waltham Forest Secondary Heads group
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Sam Jones is the chair of The Waltham Forest Secondary Heads group

Mr Jones told Sky News that the decision was “very misguided”.

“We think that it will increase in violence, potentially increase bullying and weapons-related incidents,” he said.

Safer schools officers are a “key deterrent when it comes to gang recruitment and county lines issues,” he added.

“I think this is a huge backward step.”

Knife crime hit a record high of 16,521 offences in London in the year ending September 2024 – an 18% increase from the previous year, according to the Office for National Statistics.

A Sky News survey of secondary school teachers in England revealed almost one in five had seen pupils with knives in schools.

Students from Footsteps Trust in London said the removal of officers could make schools more violent.

“There will be more knives,” Tyrelle, 14, told Sky News. “There will be fighting, there will be drugs coming into school and no one will be there to actually stop it.”

“If anything happens outside of school you can tell them [the safer school officer] and let them know,” he added.

Tyrelle, 14, believes the Met's decision means there will be more knives in schools
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Tyrelle believes the Met’s decision means there will be more knives in schools

Another pupil, Mikolej, 15, said having an officer in their school had been a “good thing” that had helped young people “speak more to police officers outside of school”.

Mikolej, 15, said having an officer in school had helped young people 'speak more to police officers outside of school'
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Mikolej said having an officer in school had helped young people

Chris Hall, headteacher of Footsteps Trust, told Sky News it was “quite staggering” that no one in education was consulted about the decision.

He said the school-based officers had been “very, very, valuable assets” who had helped familiarise “young people with the police in the most positive way”.

Chris Hall, the headteacher at Footsteps Trust
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Chris Hall, the headteacher at Footsteps Trust, said the lack of consultation was ‘staggering’

“I would 100% ask them [the Met] to re-consider,” Mr Hall said.

Walthamstow MP Stella Creasy echoed calls for the police force to think again, telling Sky News she hoped the force would “sit down with all of us so that we can work together on this”.

In a letter to headteachers, the Met said the changes will come into effect from 2 May and that the decision was “not made lightly”.

The force said the changes aimed to improve their presence in the community.

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Glen Pavelin, frontline policing commander for neighbourhoods, said: “Although officers will no longer be based in schools, they will join local policing teams where they will retain strong relationships with schools to ensure that any incidents of reports of knife crime can be dealt with quickly.

“Officers will also work with local organisations and other youth-based establishments to safeguard young people, prevent victimisation and reduce crime and anti-social behaviour beyond schools.”

The Met Police announced last week it will cut 1,700 officers and staff to plug a £260m budget shortfall.

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How King Charles and his ‘darling’ Queen Camilla have navigated their 50-year love affair as they mark 20th wedding anniversary

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Exactly 20 years ago today, the now King and Queen were married in a small, private civil ceremony in Windsor.

The wedding, which was eight years after Princess Diana’s death, divided the nation – with royal aides even fearing the newlyweds might have things thrown at them.

But on 9 April 2025, life is very different for the couple, who have appeared relaxed and happy this week on their first royal visit to Italy as King and Queen.

The King and Queen after arriving in Rome. Pic: Chris Jackson/Getty
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The King and Queen in Rome this week. Pic: Chris Jackson/Getty

In recent years, they have navigated the death of Queen Elizabeth II, the King’s ill-health, increasing Republican sentiment across the Commonwealth, and strained relationships with family members at home and abroad.

Here we look at their five-decade relationship – and how things have changed since they got married.

‘They hold each other up’

The late Queen Elizabeth II famously referred to the Duke of Edinburgh as her “strength and stay” during their 73-year marriage.

In Charles and Camilla’s relationship, humour plays a big role in coping with the demands of royal life, Kristina Kyriacou, who served as the King’s communications secretary from 2009 to 2018, tells Sky News.

“I would often see them laughing with one another – at some engagements they’d even take to the dance floor together,” she says.

The Royal Family pose for a photograph on Charles and Camilla's wedding day. Pic: PA
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The Royal Family pose for a photograph on Charles and Camilla’s wedding day. Pic: PA

King Charles reads the King's Speech, as Queen Camilla sits beside him during the State Opening of Parliament.
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The King’s Speech during the state opening of Parliament in July 2024. Pic: Reuters

King Charles and Queen Camilla are like “bookends” to one another, former BBC royal correspondent Michael Cole tells Sky News.

“They hold each other up. They’re very devoted to one another,” he says.

‘No-nonsense’ Queen stepped up during King’s illness

In the past year we’ve really seen that no-nonsense side of Camilla, prepared to roll her sleeves up and get on with it.

When the King’s cancer diagnosis forced him to step away from public duties, it was striking to see how she stepped in.

Public opinions have softened, in some cases it’s probably a case of people just getting used to her being around.

Not everyone can quite get to grips with calling her Queen – the footsteps of Queen Elizabeth II are considerable ones to follow. But like Elizabeth’s husband Prince Philip, Camilla knows her role is to support, to be the listening ear, and as we often see, enjoy those times when she and the King can laugh together.

From the early years of them having to hide their relationship away, it couldn’t be more different now.

On their anniversary night they’ll be guests of honour at a glittering state banquet in Rome. Accepted, centre stage, and ultimately representing the United Kingdom.

Fears eggs would be thrown at wedding

But it hasn’t always been easy – as many longstanding royal watchers will remember.

When they were married, in the eyes of some, Camilla was still the “third person” in her husband’s previous marriage to Princess Diana.

With the late Queen’s blessing to take her title when she died in 2022, Queen Camilla is now part of the “bedrock” of the Royal Family, according to royal experts.

During a rare interview with British Vogue to mark her 75th birthday in 2022, the Queen recalled: “I was scrutinised for such a long time that you just have to find a way to live with it.

“Nobody likes to be looked at all the time and criticised. But I think in the end, I sort of rise above it and get on with it.”

The couple with the late Queen after their blessing in Windsor in April 2005. Pic: PA
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The couple with the late Queen after their blessing in Windsor in April 2005. Pic: PA

Amid lingering public discontent over the breakdown of Charles and Diana’s marriage, his second wedding was a muted affair.

It was held at the Windsor Guildhall and not broadcast live on television. Charles didn’t wear his military garb and Camilla didn’t wear white.

The late Queen didn’t attend the ceremony but was there for the reception at Windsor Castle.

Mr Cole says: “Buckingham Palace had a real fear they would have eggs thrown at them, so the ceremonial parades were kept to a minimum.”

Camilla, out of respect for Diana, took Duchess of Cornwall as her title, not Princess of Wales. Almost two decades later, however, she received the ultimate symbol of approval when the late Queen ruled that Camilla would replace her as Queen when she died.

“They’ve just gone out there consistently and done their job and I think they’ve earned respect for that,” Ms Kyriacou says. “Eventually memories fade and people instead accept people for who they are.”

On their way to their honeymoon in 2005. Pic: PA
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Charles and Camilla on the way to their honeymoon in 2005. Pic: PA

At a polo event in June 2005. Pic: PA
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Charles and Camilla at a polo event in June 2005. Pic: PA

Britain's Prince Charles stands beside his smiling fiancee Camilla Parker Bowles during an engagement.
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The couple in February 2005. Pic: PA

“It was all done gradually,” Mr Cole says. “Step by step, the idea that they were together was introduced to the public.”

So how did it all begin?

Timeline of Charles and Camilla

1967: Camilla begins an on-off relationship with Andrew Parker Bowles

1970: Their relationship ends and Charles and Camilla begin dating

1972: Their relationship ends and Charles joins the Navy

1973: Camilla and Andrew rekindle their romance and get married

1980: Charles starts dating Lady Diana Spencer

1981: Charles and Diana get married

1989: The “Tampongate” recording takes place but it is not published

1992: Charles and Diana separate, with “no plans to divorce”

1993: The “Tampongate” tapes are published by an Australian magazine

1994: Charles admits being unfaithful to Diana

1995: Camilla and Andrew Parker Bowles divorce and Diana does her Newsnight interview

1996: Charles and Diana’s divorce is finalised

1997: Diana dies in a car crash in Paris

1999: Charles and Camilla go public at her sister’s birthday party

2000: Camilla meets the Queen

2005: Charles and Camilla get engaged in February and get married in April

2022: Charles and Camilla become King and Queen

2024:King and Princess of Wales reveal cancer diagnoses

2025: Catherine in remission from cancer, King continues treatment

Failed first relationship

The relationship stretches back 55 years, to when Prince Charles and Camilla Shand are thought to have met for the first time at a polo match in London in 1970.

Camilla, the daughter of an esteemed military officer, had been in an on-off relationship with Andrew Parker Bowles, a captain with The Blues and Royals regiment of the British Army.

NOTE: THIS PICTURE HAS BEEN DIGITALLY COLOURISED.Mandatory Credit: Photo by Shutterstock (55359e).Prince Charles Talking to Camilla Parker Bowles at a Polo Match.Prince Charles Talking to Camilla Parker Bowles at a Polo Match, Cirencester Park, Britain - July 1975
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Charles and Camilla at a polo match in 1975. Pic: Shutterstock

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Charles had only been officially invested with the title of the Prince of Wales a year earlier and was fresh out of Cambridge University and RAF training.

Having bonded over a shared love of polo and countryside pursuits, they dated for around two years before the prince left to join the Navy and Camilla rekindled her romance with Mr Parker Bowles, marrying him a year later in 1973.

Leaving the theatre in London together, February 1975. Pic: PA
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Charles and Camilla leave the theatre in London in February 1975. Pic: PA

Over the years, many have cited the now King’s military commitments as the reason their initial relationship broke down.

But Mr Cole recalls it differently. “It would be wrong to say that he ‘missed the bus’ and could have married her then, but hesitated,” he says. “The fact was she loved Andrew Parker Bowles.”

He adds that at that point, Camilla would not have been considered by the Queen and her advisers to be a suitable bride for the heir to the throne because she had a “past” (as it was put then) – meaning earlier relationships before meeting Charles.

‘Third person’ in Charles and Diana’s marriage

In the years that followed, the young Prince Charles was under pressure to marry and began dating Lady Diana Spencer, the younger sister of his ex-girlfriend Sarah.

Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer pose for their engagement photo in 1981. Pic: PA
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Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer pose for their engagement photo in 1981. Pic: PA

Camilla and Andrew Parker Bowles at Buckingham Palace in 1984 with their children to get his OBE from the Queen. Pic: PA
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Camilla and Andrew Parker Bowles at Buckingham Palace in 1984 with their children to get his OBE from the Queen. Pic: PA

By that stage, Camilla had given birth to two children, Tom in 1974 and Laura in 1978.

Diana famously told Newsnight in 1995 that “there were three of us in this marriage” – the third person being Camilla.

CAMILLA PARKER-BOWLES AND DIANA SPENCER AT LUDLOW RACECOURSE TO WATCH THE HORSE THE IRISH GELDING ALLIBAR WHICH PRINCE CHARLES WAS RIDING IN THE AMATEUR RIDERS HANDICAP STEEPLECHASE IN WHICH HE FINISHED SECOND TODAY.
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Camilla and Diana in October 1980. Pic: PA

Charles admitted adultery in a 1994 interview with Jonathan Dimbleby – a precursor to Diana’s explosive Newsnight interview. He confessed he had been unfaithful after their marriage “irretrievably broke down”.

Further evidence came in the form of the “Tampongate” tape, a recording of a phone call between Charles and Camilla in which they exchanged sexual innuendos.

While the contents of the call weren’t leaked until 1993 – a year after Charles and Diana announced their separation – the conversation reportedly took place in 1989, when they were both married to other people.

At the Mey Highland Games in August 2003. Pic: PA
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Charles and Camilla at the Mey Highland Games in 2003. Pic: PA

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Charles Anson, former press secretary to Queen Elizabeth II from 1990 to 1997, says that while it wasn’t palace business to be commenting on private relationships, it was an “issue” that had to be navigated carefully.

“It was a feature of life at that time and therefore something that needed to be handled,” he says. “Prince Charles and Camilla were part of the landscape.”

According to Mr Cole, it was always Charles driving their relationship in the early days.

“She was happy with her life in the countryside, with her children, and would have been quite happy to remain his mistress – she didn’t expect anything else,” he says. “But for Charles it was non-negotiable, he had to have her.”

At Sandringham together in March 2002. Pic: PA
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The pair at Sandringham in March 2002. Pic: PA

Going public

The breakdown of Charles and Diana’s marriage dominated headlines as one of the biggest news stories of its time.

It wasn’t until after Diana died that Charles and Camilla officially appeared in public together – at a birthday party for Camilla’s sister Annabel Elliot at the Ritz Hotel in early 1999.

Camilla Parker Bowles arrives for her 50th birthday party at Highgrove House near Tetbury, Gloucestershire tonight (Friday). Photo Barry Batchelor/PA
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Camilla arrives at her 50th birthday party at Highgrove in July 1997. Pic: PA

However, a month before Diana’s death in Paris in the summer of 1997, Charles threw a birthday party for Camilla at his Gloucestershire country home, Highgrove.

The late Queen did not attend. She reportedly only agreed to formally meet Camilla in 2000.

In public together for the first time in London in 1999. Pic: PA
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Charles and Camilla pictured as a couple in public together for the first time in London in 1999. Pic: PA

In London for a Prince's Foundation gala in June 2000. Pic: PA
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The couple attend a Prince’s Foundation gala in June 2000. Pic: PA

Standing the test of time

Mr Anson, former press secretary to Queen Elizabeth II from 1990 to 1997, now describes their relationship as the “bedrock of the monarchy”.

Ultimately, it’s their love for one another which has seen their “partnership stand the test of time”, Ms Kyriacou says.

“I remember King Charles consistently referring to Queen Camilla as his ‘darling wife’. And that’s very touching – and it’s how I will remember them on their 20th wedding anniversary.”

At a Clarence House reception in March 2025. Pic: PA
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At a Clarence House reception in March 2025. Pic: PA

In her Vogue interview, the Queen revealed they always try to make quality time for one another.

“It’s not easy sometimes, but we do always try to have a point in the day when we meet,” she said. “Sometimes it’s like ships passing in the night, but we always sit down together and have a cup of tea and discuss the day.”

Ms Kyriacou remembers this, telling Sky News: “They don’t do every single engagement together, but no matter what, they will try to share breakfast or dinner.

“Being a member of the Royal Family is a privileged position but my impression was that it must also be very lonely when you are constantly under intense public scrutiny – your inner circle is so small. So to have someone you can trust implicitly, who you can share everything with and who understands that is what carries them through.”

Britain's King Charles and Queen Camilla prepare donation bags with dates ahead of Ramadan, at Darjeeling Express in London, Britain, February 26, 2025. Eddie Mulholland/Pool via REUTERS Eddie Mulholland/Pool via REUTERS
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The King and Queen prepare donation bags with dates for Ramadan in February 2025. Pic: Reuters

King Charles and Queen Camilla stop for a whiskey tasting at The Friend at Hand on a visit to Commercial Court during an official visit to Northern Ireland.
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Stopping for a whiskey tasting on Northern Ireland visit. Pic: Reuters

This has likely been even more important as the King navigates his cancer treatment, she adds.

“For over 50 years of public life he has been indefatigable in terms of how many engagements he takes on,” Ms Kyriacou says.

“So he tries not to draw attention to himself. He tells people just enough, but he’s still trying to be humorous, compassionate, affable. And the Queen understands this – that he cannot let his emotions come first – that his public persona has to stay very neutral.”

King Charles and Queen Camilla pose with local rugby union players during their Samoa Cultural Village visit.
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The couple during a visit to a Samoan village in 2024. Pic: Reuters

King Charles and Queen Camilla followed by  the Princess of Wales, Princess Charlotte, the Prince of Wales and Prince George attending the Christmas Day.
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The King and Queen lead the Royal Family as they arrive at church on Christmas Day 2024. Pic: PA

But she will also use that “mutual respect” to be firm with him about what he needs.

“Particularly in these times of ill-health, I should imagine the Queen can temper the King’s workaholic nature and make strong suggestions to him to take more time to relax,” she says.

“Everything challenging they’ve been through will almost certainly have been halved because they’ve gone through it together.”

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