The heartbroken brother of a teenager who vanished almost a month ago has told Sky News of the “hell” his family are living through while the search goes on.
Cole Cooper, 19, was last seen by an old school friend on Wednesday 7 May, in the village of Longcroft near Falkirk, in central Scotland.
His brother, Connor Cooper, said life feels “empty” without his sibling.
Speaking to Sky News Breakfast on Monday, Connor said: “We just feel lost not having him in our lives at the moment while he’s been missing.
“It’s hell, if I’m being brutally honest, for all of us.
“One minute you’re fine, next minute… not even fine, if that makes sense?
“But you’re coping better than what you might have done the day before, and then the next minute you’re just breaking down.
“And I know that was me last night, I was just breaking down. It’s really tough on us all.
“We’re just trying to take each day and each minute as it comes. It is hell though. I would never wish this on anyone.”
Image: Cole Cooper. Pic: Police Scotland
Image: Pic: Family handout
Cole was reported missing on Friday 9 May.
He was earlier captured on CCTV in the Longcroft area at about 6am on Sunday 4 May, after leaving a house party in the area.
Police Scotland said the last confirmed sighting was at 8.45pm on the A803 at its intersection with Cumbernauld Road, Longcroft, on Wednesday 7 May.
Chief Inspector Alex Hatrick previously told Sky News there had been no evidence of criminality.
Image: Pic: Police Scotland
More than 220 properties have been visited, and more than 1,000 hours of CCTV footage collected, as part of the force’s efforts to find Cole.
Specialist resources from across the country have been mobilised to help, including the police helicopter and drones from the air support unit, as well as officers from the dive and marine unit.
Connor believes the work of Police Scotland will help push the investigation as the family continue to seek answers as to what has happened.
He said: “For Cole, this is very abnormal. It’s very much out of his character. He’s never, ever done anything like this.”
Image: A missing poster for Cole Cooper – who initially was last seen on 4 May. An old school friend later said they saw the teenager on 7 May
Connor said even if his brother wanted some space or alone time, he would have told family or friends and “would never put his younger siblings through this”.
He added: “So, the fact that he’s been missing for coming up to a month – he’s not used his phone, no bank card has been used, anything like that – it’s very much out of character.
“And I genuinely believe Cole would never do anything like this.”
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Wendy Stewart told of her heartbreak, adding: “I have been wanting to wake up, and it’s just been a big nightmare.”
Cole’s family said the joinery apprentice recently started up his own fencing and decking business, which was thriving.
Connor warmly described his brother as “funny, goofy, smart, but gullible a bit”.
He added: “My brother is one of the most loving, caring people you would ever come across. He always wears his heart on his sleeve.
“For the people that he loves and cares about, he really wants them to do well in life.”
Connor urged all those with information – no matter how small – to contact the family or Police Scotland.
Thanking all those who have offered support so far, he added: “At the end of the day, this is a 19-year-old boy.
“He’s got a family, he’s got friends that love and care about him and we just want him home safe now.
“And just try and put yourself in our shoes. If this was you or your family member or friend, I’m sure you would want people to come forward with information as well.”
The Manchester synagogue attacker was a British citizen of Syrian descent who came to the UK as a small child and had not previously been on the radar of police or MI5.
Jihad al Shamie, 35, was shot dead by armed officers seven minutes after launching a car and knife attack while wearing what appeared to be a vest with an explosive device, which was later found to be fake.
Adrian Daulby, 53, and Melvin Cravitz, 66, were killed after he drove at people outside Heaton Park Hebrew Congregation Synagogue, in Crumpsall, before stabbing a man.
One of the victims killed in yesterday’s attack was shot mistakenly by officers during their attempts to bring the attacker under control, Greater Manchester Police believe.
Three others remain in hospital with serious injuries.
Three people – two men in their 30s and a woman in her 60s – have been arrested on suspicion of the preparation or commission of acts of terrorism.
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But Home Secretary Shabana Mahmood said it is “too early” to say if there was a terrorist cell behind the attack on Thursday morning, which took place on Yom Kippur, Judaism’s holiest day.
She said al Shamie, who is of Syrian descent, came to the UK as a “small child” and was naturalised as a British citizen in the mid-2000s.
The home secretary also said he was not known to the security services or police and had not been referred to the government’s Prevent anti-radicalisation scheme.
Asked about the attacker’s name on LBC, which presenter Nick Ferrari translated as “struggle of the Syrian”, she said: “I was very surprised to discover that name myself.
“Actually, as a Muslim, I’ve never heard someone being called Jihad, but it is the name that he was born with – that has always been his name.”
Image: Police presence at a property in Langley Crescent, Prestwich.
Pic: PA
Al Shamie is believed to have lived in a council house in a quiet cul-de-sac in Langley Crescent, Prestwich, around two miles from the scene.
Videos obtained by Sky News show armed police, with a dog and a chainsaw, raiding the address at around 3.30pm on Thursday.
In a post on Facebook, apparently from his family, his relatives said the attack “has been a profound shock to us”.
“The al Shamie family in the UK and abroad strongly condemns this heinous act, which targeted peaceful, innocent civilians,” they said.
“We fully distance ourselves from this attack and express our deep shock and sorrow over what has happened.
“Our hearts and thoughts are with the victims and their families, and we pray for their strength and comfort.”
Seen lifting weights
One of al Shamie’s neighbours said: “We used to see him out in the garden working out, doing weights, press-ups.
“He used to change his clothes. One day he would be wearing the full gown, to the floor and the next jeans and pyjama bottoms.”
Geoff Haliwell, 72, told Sky News the property used to be on his window cleaning round and he believed the al Shamie family, including his mother, father and brothers, had lived there for around 20 years.
“There’s no way I could’ve thought they were in any way involved in anything like this,” he said, describing the family as “nice people”.
He said he had also seen Jihad al Shamie use benches to work out and said he would sometimes wear western clothes and at other times “traditional” Syrian dress, but showed no signs of radicalisation.
“[He was a] smashing lad to talk to, just the same as everyone else. He didn’t stand out in any way,” he added.
Another neighbour, Kate McLeish, said she thought al Shamie was “an odd guy” and said he used to park his battered black Kia “quite badly on the road”.
The Syrian British Consortium, an organisation representing Syrians in the UK, said no one in its community networks has been able to identify him or confirm knowing him personally.
A couple who murdered their two-year-old grandson have been jailed for life.
Michael Ives, 47, and Kerry Ives, 46, were found guilty of his murder and cruelty to a child in July after a trial at Mold Crown Court.
They were jailed for minimum terms of 23 years and 17 years respectively.
Their grandson Ethan Ives-Griffiths was dangerously dehydrated, severely underweight and had 40 visible bruises or marks when he collapsed with a catastrophic head injury at his grandparents’ home in Flintshire, North Wales, on 14 August 2021.
Image: Kerry and Michael Ives were found guilty of Ethan’s murder. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
Ethan’s mother, Shannon Ives, 28, who had been staying with her son at her parents’ home, was found guilty of causing or allowing his death and child cruelty.
Image: Ethan’s mother Shannon Ives. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
The court heard Ethan was made to stand with his hands on his head as a punishment when he misbehaved.
CCTV footage shown to jurors during the trial showed Michael Ives carrying his grandson by the top of his arm in a way described by prosecutor Caroline Rees KC “as though Ethan was just a bag of rubbish to be slung out”.
The video, taken from the back garden of the family’s four-bedroom home, showed Ethan appearing unsteady on a trampoline, or lying down, while other children bounced.
Image: Michael Ives carrying Ethan outside the family home in Garden City, Deeside, Flintshire. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
Image: Michael Ives carrying Ethan in the back garden. Pic: North Wales Police
Michael Ives was seen to point a garden hose at him, placed the toddler’s hands on his head, and gestured to another child to punch him.
After watching the video in court, Michael Ives said he felt “ashamed” and admitted being cruel and neglectful but denied mistreating Ethan in other ways.
He said his daughter was “quick-tempered” and would slap Ethan a couple of times a day, but Shannon Ives claimed her parents were “horrible” and abused her as a child.
Image: Ethan Ives-Griffiths. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
Michael and Kerry Ives, originally from Wolverhampton, were in the living room with Ethan at the time of his collapse while his mother was on the phone upstairs.
The pair told the jury “nothing” had happened to the toddler before he fainted as they watched television.
Kerry Ives said she immediately called her daughter to come downstairs, but the court heard it was 18 minutes before she called emergency services.
Ethan was taken to the Countess of Chester Hospital and later transferred to Alder Hey Children’s Hospital in Liverpool, where he died two days later.
Image: Michael Ives being interviewed by police officers. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
Image: Kerry Ives being interviewed by police officers. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
He was found to have abdominal injuries likely to have been caused by blows in the days before his collapse, as well as bruises consistent with grip marks on his leg and face.
Experts said Ethan would have died of dehydration within days had he not suffered the head injury, and at the time of his death weighed just 10kg.
Ethan’s fatal head injury was said to have been caused by deliberate force or shaking, and occurred at the time, or in the minutes before, he collapsed.
Image: Ethan with his father Will Griffiths. Pic: North Wales Police/PA
Following the verdicts, Ethan’s father Will Griffiths said: “He will be remembered for the smiley, outgoing, loving child that he was. He can now rest in peace, knowing that justice has been served.”
Child protection register
The court heard the youngster had been placed on the child protection register, requiring him to be seen every 10 days.
But when Shannon Ives last saw her social worker, on 5 August 2021, she spoke to him on the doorstep and told him Ethan was having a nap.
No one answered the door when social worker Michael Cornish went to visit in the days before Ethan’s death and a scheduled appointment with a health visitor on 13 August was cancelled.
It’s just gone 7.30pm – and outside a synagogue in north Manchester, we’ve heard the shofar, a ceremonial horn, being blown to mark the end of the long day of prayers.
The streets, which had been so quiet all day, fill with people and families.
We’re just minutes away from where the attack took place.
But people haven’t had their phones on in synagogue – and we find ourselves in the slightly surreal position of having to tell people what happened to members of their community, just a few roads away.
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Earlier in the day on these streets, we saw additional police patrols, with officers telling us they were here to reassure members of the public.
But people are accustomed to seeing security here.
Both paid and volunteer security staff, in their hi-vis jackets, are a permanent fixture outside every synagogue.
It’s to help protect a community that, even before this attack, has felt under threat.
Image: ‘The security is not the solution,’ this man said
“The security is not the solution,” one man tells me as he heads home from prayers. “Those who really want to do [something like this], they will do it with lots of security, it doesn’t matter.”
Among everyone we spoke to, there was a sense of shock at what had happened, but perhaps not necessarily surprise amid rising acts of antisemitism in the UK.
Image: David Yehudi
David Yehudi and the rabbi he studied with said it had felt like a long time coming.
“As a grandchild of a Holocaust survivor, I feel as if this is before 1935 again,” he says. “That’s the overwhelming feeling all over the world.”
Image: The rabbi asked ‘where is the United Nations?’
The rabbi adds: “The United Nations was set up with the intention of ‘never again’, and where is the United Nations? In terms of the global support against antisemitism. It’s just not there anymore. We are as unsafe as we were before the war.”
It is a shocking thing to hear, on this, the most solemn of days.