A woman arrested at a vigil for murdered Sarah Everard has told Sky News the Metropolitan Police hasn’t changed since and “there’s other Wayne Couzens in the Met right now”.
Patsy Stevenson, a campaigner and equal rights activist, was speaking after an inquiry said on Thursday that Wayne Couzens, the serving Met officer who murdered Ms Everard in 2021, should never have been allowed to join the force.
Major red flags about Couzens were “repeatedly ignored” by police vetting and investigations, the report stated, including his taste for “extreme and violent pornography” and evidence he allegedly committed a “very serious sexual assault against a child” before his policing career even began.
Image: Patsy Stevenson was arrested while attending a vigil for Sarah Everard. Pic: Reuters
Ms Stevenson told The UK Tonight with Sarah-Jane Mee, she was “exhausted” of hearing words like ‘urgent’, ‘shocked’ and ‘sorry’ in relation to police reform.
She said: “Three years ago we had this sort of promise of we’re going to vet them correctly, we’re going to do this, we’re going to do that. And it’s still not happened in that time.
“We’ve had David Carrick, we’ve had Cliff Mitchell. We’ve had so many others. You know, you type in ‘Met Police rapists’ on Google, there’s just so many of them, which is ridiculous and abhorrent.”
Image: Patsy Sevenson was arrested at a vigil in memory of murdered Sarah Everard. Pic: James Veysey/Shutterstock
Both Carrick and Mitchell are former Met officers and convicted sex offenders, both found guilty of multiple rapes.
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Ms Stevenson said officers had told her, if they suspected a colleague of having the wrong attitude to women, they wouldn’t say anything about it for fear of getting them in trouble.
She said: “You know that there’s police that would say those things, who view women a certain way, and you still don’t say anything because that’s what it’s about.
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“It’s not just whether they make a comment or whether they do something. It’s a mindset right now, 100%. There’s other Wayne Cousins in the Met right now.
Image: Wayne Couzens. Pic: PA
“All policing systems still have this culture of misogyny, racism, homophobia and there’s not enough space for people to speak up about it when they are in that system. And protection for those people who do speak up.
“But also, we’re not dealing with the actual culture. If you’re objectifying women, that’s misogyny. If you have those thoughts in your head already, you’re already on that path.
“These people that are murdering and raping women aren’t some horror movie character hiding down an alleyway. Wayne Couzens had a family… you may think you can trust them, but they can be very manipulative. You don’t know who these people are.”
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‘Couzens was careful to disguise toxic behaviours’
The former firearms officer will never be released from prison after he used his police-issued warrant card to stage a fake arrest and snatch Sarah Everard in Clapham, south London, on 3 March 2021.
He drove the 33-year-old marketing executive to a secluded rural area near Dover in Kent, raped and strangled her with his police-issue belt before burning her body in a fridge and dumping her remains in a pond.
Asked if women are safe with police, Ms Stevenson’s answer was unequivocal.
She said: “I personally believe that women shouldn’t trust the police. I wish we could. We hear the rhetoric of, you know, well, ‘who else are you going to go to’? Nobody. There isn’t anyone right now. And that’s a scary thought. There is nobody that women and girls trust when things go bad.”
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Sarah Everard protesters’ tearful reunion
Ms Stevenson said she found it hard to discuss the moment of her arrest.
Pictures of her being pinned down by officers at the event in March 2021, widely seen at the time, “still spark emotions in me. I still have nightmares about what happened to me.
“I know that growing up in this world, they [women] can’t trust police, they can’t walk down the road without fear. It feels like we’re a second-class citizen at the moment.”
Manchester Arena bomb plotter Hashem Abedi has been charged with three counts of attempted murder.
It comes after four prison officers were injured in an attack at the maximum security prison HMP Frankland in Co Durham on 12 April.
Abedi has also been charged with one count of assault occasioning actual bodily harm and one count of unauthorised possession of a knife or offensive weapon.
Counter Terrorism Policing North East has said it carried out a “thorough investigation” of the incident with Durham Constabulary and HMP Frankland.
He remains in prison and is due to appear at Westminster Magistrates’ Court on 18 September.
Three prison officers were taken to hospital with serious injuries following the incident.
Marnie’s first serious relationship came when she was 16-years-old.
Warning: This article contains references to strangulation, coercive control and domestic abuse.
She was naturally excited when a former friend became her first boyfriend.
But after a whirlwind few months, everything changed with a slow, determined peeling away of her personality.
“There was isolation, then it was the phone checking,” says Marnie.
As a survivor of abuse, we are not using her real name.
“When I would go out with my friends or do something, I’d get constant phone calls and messages,” she says.
“I wouldn’t be left alone to sort of enjoy my time with my friends. Sometimes he might turn up there, because I just wasn’t trusted to just go and even do something minor like get my nails done.”
Image: The internet is said to be helping to fuel a rise in domestic abuse among teens. Pic: iStock
He eventually stopped her from seeing friends, shouted at her unnecessarily, and accused her of looking at other men when they would go out.
If she ever had any alone time, he would bombard her with calls and texts; she wasn’t allowed to do anything without him knowing where she was.
He monitored her phone constantly.
“Sometimes I didn’t even know someone had messaged me.
“My mum maybe messaged to ask me where I was. He would delete the message and put my phone away, so then I wouldn’t even have a clue my mum had tried to reach me.”
The toll of what Marnie experienced was only realised 10 years later when she sought help for frequent panic attacks.
She struggled to comprehend the damage her abuser had inflicted when she was diagnosed with PTSD.
This is what psychological abuse and coercive control looks like.
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‘His hands were on my throat – he didn’t stop’
Young women and girls in the UK are increasingly falling victim, with incidents of domestic abuse spiralling among under-25s.
Exclusive data shared with Sky News, gathered by domestic abuse charity Refuge, reveals a disturbing rise in incidents between April 2024 and March 2025.
Psychological abuse was the most commonly reported form of harm, affecting 73% of young women and girls.
Of those experiencing this form of manipulation, 49% said their perpetrator had threatened to harm them and a further 35% said their abuser had threatened to kill them.
Among the 62% of 16-25 year olds surveyed who had reported suffering from physical violence, half of them said they had been strangled or suffocated.
Earlier this year, Sky News reported that school children were asking for advice on strangulation, but Kate Lexen, director of services at charity Tender, says children as young as nine are asking about violent pornography and displaying misogynistic behaviour.
Image: Kate Lexen, director of services at charity Tender
“What we’re doing is preventing what those misogynistic behaviours can then escalate onto,” Ms Lexen says.
Tender has been running workshops and lessons on healthy relationships in primary and secondary schools and colleges for over 20 years.
Children as young as nine ‘talking about strangulation’
Speaking to Sky News, Ms Lexen says new topics are being brought up in sessions, which practitioners and teachers are adapting to.
“We’re finding those Year 5 and Year 6 students, so ages 9, 10 and 11, are talking about strangulation, they’re talking about attitudes that they’ve read online and starting to bring in some of those attitudes from some of those misogynistic influencers.
“There are ways that they’re talking about and to their female teachers.
“We’re finding that from talking to teachers as well that they are really struggling to work out how to broach these topics with the students that they are working with and how to make that a really safe space and open space to have those conversations in an age-appropriate way, which can be very challenging.”
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Hidden domestic abuse deaths
Charities like Tender exist to prevent domestic abuse and sexual violence.
Ms Lexen says without tackling misogynistic behaviours “early on with effective prevention education” then the repercussions, as the data for under 25s proves, will be “astronomical”.
At Refuge, it is already evident. Elaha Walizadeh, senior programme manager for children and young people, says the charity has seen a rise in referrals since last year.
Image: Elaha Walizadeh, senior programme manager for children and young people at Refuge
“We have also seen the dynamics of abuse changing,” she adds. “So with psychological abuse being reported, we’ve seen a rise in that and non-fatal strangulation cases, we’ve seen a rise in as well.
“Our frontline workers are telling us that the young people are telling them usually abuse starts from smaller signs. So things like coercive control, where the perpetrators are stopping them from seeing friends and family. It then builds.”
Misogyny to violent behaviour might seem like a leap.
But experts and survivors are testament to the fact that it is happening.