The children of a woman who died 21 years after being doused in petrol and set ablaze by her partner have said they are “thankful” for every extra day they spent together.
Stephen Craig, 58, spent more than 18 years in prison for the “sadistic” petrol attack on Jacqueline Kirk in a car park in Weston-super-Mare, Somerset, in April 1998.
Following her death in August 2019 he was charged with murder and found guilty by a jury last month.
Ms Kirk was subjected to a “callous and brutal” ordeal which left her with burns to 35% of her body.
Against the odds, she survived more than two decades and was able to witness both her children get married and become a grandmother.
But she died a day after being admitted to hospital with a ruptured abdomen in 2019, with doctors refusing to operate due to her frail condition.
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Ms Kirk’s son, Shane, and daughter, Sonna, paid tribute to her bravery in moving statements read during Craig’s sentencing hearing at Bristol Crown Court.
“Every day was a struggle – but she hardly ever complained”
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Image: Ms Kirk with her dog, Molly, who was a “huge comfort”. Pic: Somerset and Avon Police
Recalling the moment he saw his mother for the first time after the attack, Shane, then 22, said: “I immediately began to cry but remember thinking very vividly that this can’t be real and that the person in the bed wasn’t my mum.
“I remember saying goodbye, it felt like I had already lost her.”
But he added: “Even though she was unrecognisable and she could not speak, slowly, week by week, her personality and character shined through, and she slowly became our mum again.”
“Every day was a struggle” for Ms Kirk, who battled constant pain, he said – but “she hardly ever complained about all the things she found hard in life.”
Image: Steven Craig, who set fire to his girlfriend Jacqueline Kirk in 1998. Craig has been found guilty of Jacqueline’s murder following her death 21 years later
“In the first few years, every time she was admitted to hospital it felt like that could be it,” he said.
“Eventually this became normal and she would always pull through, she was such a fighter.
“Mum was just 40 when she was burnt, but she managed to find her voice again after being told she would never talk.
“She beat all the odds and went on to have over 20 more years that I will always be grateful for.
“I will always feel that mum should and could have had and done so much more in her life, but Stephen Craig has taken her from our lives too soon.”
“Grateful and thankful for every extra day I spent with mum”
Image: Jacqueline Kirk, pictured with daughter Sonna before the attack. Pic: Somerset and Avon Police
Mother-of-two Sonna was just 13 when her mother was attacked, with both her and brother Shane forced to grow up very fast.
For almost a year, the siblings caught three buses to visit Ms Kirk in hospital.
They were both at her bedside, holding her hand when she died in hospital.
Sonna said in her statement: “I spent 21 years of feeling grateful and thankful for every extra day that I got to spend with my mum.
“From the very beginning when I was told that she would likely die she managed to surprise everyone and come through so much.
“She was able to see me grow up into an adult where I got married and then went on to have children and so she became nanny Jackie.
Image: Jacqueline Kirk and her daughter Sonna on her wedding day
“It’s has been three years since my mum died and during that time part of my life has been on hold because I haven’t had complete closure.
“I have also had to deal with the emotional trauma of going through a second trial, only this time my mum is no longer with me.”
Craig, who must serve a minimum of 15 years before being considered for release by the parole board, had a string of previous convictions including rape and grevious bodily harm of another partner.
He admitted responsibility for the attack on Ms Kirk – but not her death.
He will remain on licence for the rest of his life if he is freed from prison.
The synagogue killer, Jihad al Shamie, radicalised himself after searching online for videos of the Islamic State terror group, according to a friend.
The man, Qas, said al Shamie “started using [encrypted messaging app] Telegram and searching for ISIS videos.
“Once, he even tried to show me one at the shisha lounge. I told him to go away and asked how he even got access to that content, and he said it was through Telegram. After that, I didn’t see him for a long time until I heard what had happened.”
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Another friend, Asim, told Sky News he met al Shamie through their shared interest in computers. He said he noticed a difference in al Shamie a year ago.
Asim said al Shamie “changed a bit, I felt his thoughts were a bit too radical for me. He was a nice guy, very quiet and softly-spoken. I was shocked about what he did.
“He started asking me for money – not small amounts, but thousands,” Asim explained.
“When I refused, he became angry. I’d never seen that side of him before.”
Earlier this year, al Shamie was working as a call handler for the RAC motoring organisation.
He was employed through an agency as a part-time temp from December to the end of March, when he was no longer needed.
Last year, al Shamie had money problems and was subject to a government debt relief order, which meant that his debts would be paid off in a year if he agreed to certain restrictions.
Money appeared to be one of many problems.
A former friend of al Shamie described how he became increasingly withdrawn and “in his own world” after a steroid addiction had led to heavier drug use. They said his behaviour became strange and unpredictable.
“I once noticed on his phone that he had several notifications from dating apps, which confused me because I knew he was married,” the friend said.
“You could be having a normal conversation with him, and suddenly he would flip and start ranting. I eventually blocked him.”
Image: Police and forensics officers near Heaton Park Hebrew synagogue. Pic: PA
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Multiple marriages and ‘obsessed’ with dating app
It’s believed the terrorist married several wives in Islamic wedding ceremonies, one of them even before he split up from the mother of his young child.
He reportedly became obsessed with an Islamic dating app, and sent abusive messages to an ex-girlfriend, hit her and told her to dress more conservatively during their brief on-off relationship.
The woman, who was 18 at the time, told the Manchester Evening News: “He used to say ‘I want you to be dedicated to the cause’, and he used to sit there and make me watch videos, like extreme videos, that I had no interest in.
“I am Muslim and of course I love to learn more, but this stuff were things that I have been raised to not agree with. He used to always say I was taught the wrong way and I wasn’t taught right. He was basically just trying to groom me into what he thought.”
She said he would message girls on his Muzmatch – now Muzz – dating app, using false names such as Valentino and Ahmed.
“He kept getting banned because of his speech and what he was sending,” she said.
“There were times when he would send me videos of him with other girls, and the girls were quite young.”
‘Rape fantasies’
The woman said al Shamie told her he had “rape fantasies”, and that he “used to say weird stuff, it was just insane. I can’t believe I stayed as long as I did”.
His marriage collapsed after he secretly wed an NHS nurse, a widow, who had converted to Islam.
A neighbour, Geoff Halliwell, who cleaned the family’s windows for many years at their home in Prestwich, told Sky News al Shamie had lived there with his wife and young child, but he believed left six months earlier.
Mr Halliwell said: “There was the mother and three lads, but one moved away. We’re talking about the eldest, he had a wife and kid, but she moved out some time ago.
“There was no sign of radicalisation, nothing like that. We never talked politics. Just ‘good morning, how are you? Lovely day, isn’t it?’
“He was fine, the whole thing has come out of the blue. He was a smashing lad to talk to, so were the other two lads.”
Mr Halliwell said the father left the family home about 10 years ago, but sometimes visited.
He thought he had moved to France because sometimes he turned up in a French-registered car.
Faraj al Shamie, a trauma surgeon who has worked for the International Committee of the Red Cross in Africa, condemned his son’s attack on the synagogue.
Image: Faraj al Shamie spoke of the family’s ‘deep shock and sorrow’ at his son’s actions
He said in a statement: “The al Shamie family in the UK and abroad strongly condemns this heinous act, which targeted peaceful, innocent civilians. We fully distance ourselves from this attack and express our deep shock and sorrow over what has happened.”
But, two years ago, on 7 October, he praised the actions of Hamas terrorists for their attack on Israel in which 1,200 were killed and 251 taken back to Gaza as hostages.
Al Shamie wrote on Facebook: “The scenes broadcast by the Al-Aqsa Martyrs Brigades of a group of fighters storming an Israeli army camp using simple means, namely balloons and motorcycles, prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that Israel will not remain.”
Additional reporting by Shakir Ahmed, specialist producer and Rebecca Spencer, crime producer
Author Dame Jilly Cooper has died, her publisher has said.
“It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Dame Jilly Cooper, DBE who died on Sunday morning, after a fall, at the age of 88,” a statement said.
The Queen paid tribute to Dame Jilly, calling her a “legend” who was a “wonderfully witty and compassionate friend”.
The best-selling author was renowned for her raunchy, so-called “bonkbuster” novels, which portrayed the scandals and sex lives of wealthy country social circles, including Rivals, Riders and Polo.
She was praised for her blend of risqué storylines and critique of Britain’s class system, personified by showjumping lothario Rupert Campbell-Black.
Her children Felix and Emily said: “Mum was the shining light in all of our lives. Her love for all of her family and friends knew no bounds.
“Her unexpected death has come as a complete shock.
“We are so proud of everything she achieved in her life and can’t begin to imagine life without her infectious smile and laughter all around us.”
Image: Jilly Cooper met Queen Camilla during a reception at Clarence House in March this year. Pic: PA
Image: Jilly Cooper and daughter Emily. Pic: PA
Dame Jilly was propelled to commercial success in the 1980s, and sold 11 million copies of her books during her more than fifty-year career.
Last year, Rivals was adapted into a successful TV series, which she worked on as an executive producer.
Image: Jilly Cooper found fame in the 1980s. Pic: Nikki English/ANL/Shutterstock
Tributes to author who created ‘a whole new genre’
Dame Jilly was a long-standing friend of the Queen.
In a statement released by Buckingham Palace, she said: “I was so saddened to learn of Dame Jilly’s death last night.
“Very few writers get to be a legend in their own lifetime but Jilly was one, creating a whole new genre of literature and making it her own through a career that spanned over five decades.
“In person she was a wonderfully witty and compassionate friend to me and so many – and it was a particular pleasure to see her just a few weeks ago at my Queen’s Reading Room Festival where she was, as ever, a star of the show.
“I join my husband the King in sending our thoughts and sympathies to all her family.
“And may her hereafter be filled with impossibly handsome men and devoted dogs.”
The author’s many fans included former prime minister Rishi Sunak, who said the books offered “escapism”.
Image: Jilly Cooper with cast members from Rivals in 2024. Pic: Hogan Media/Shutterstock
‘Dame Jilly defined culture’
Her agent Felicity Blunt said: “The privilege of my career has been working with a woman who has defined culture, writing and conversation since she was first published over fifty years ago.”
She added: “You wouldn’t expect books categorised as bonkbusters to have so emphatically stood the test of time, but Jilly wrote with acuity and insight about all things – class, sex, marriage, rivalry, grief and fertility.”
The executive producers of the Disney+ adaptation, Rivals, said they are “broken-hearted” and “her legacy will endure”.
Dominic Treadwell-Collins and Alex Lamb added: “Jilly was and always will be one of the world’s greatest storytellers, and it has been the most incredible honour to have been able to work with her to adapt her incredible novels for television.”
As tributes rolled in on Monday, TV presenter Kirsty Allsopp wrote on X: “I know 88 is a good age, but this is very sad news.
“A British institution, funny, enthusiastic and self-deprecating, we don’t see enough of it these days.”
Her publisher Bill Scott-Kerr said: “Jilly may have worn her influence lightly, but she was a true trailblazer.
“As a journalist she went where others feared to tread, and as a novelist she did likewise.
“With a winning combination of glorious storytelling, wicked social commentary and deft, lacerating characterisation, she dissected the behaviour, bad mostly, of the English upper middle classes with the sharpest of scalpels.”
Image: Author Jilly Cooper with two stars of a mini TV series based on her book Riders. Pic: PA
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The ‘unholy terror’
Born in Essex in 1937, Jilly Cooper came from a Yorkshire family known for newspaper publishing and politics.
Her writing career began in 1956 as a junior reporter on the Middlesex Independent, covering everything from parties to football.
Image: Aidan Turner played the character Declan O’Hara in Rivals. Pic: PA
She had said she was known as the “unholy terror” at school, and was sacked from 22 jobs before finding her way into book publishing.
Dame Jilly started writing stories for women’s magazines in 1968, and found her break in 1969 when The Sunday Times published a story on being an ”undomesticated” homemaker. It gave rise to a column that lasted over 13 years.
In 2019 she won the inaugural Comedy Women in Print lifetime achievement award, and in 2024 was made a dame for her services to literature and charity.
A security guard who helped barricade the doors during the Manchester synagogue attack has told Sky News he thought “we are all going to die” – as he watched two of his friends get struck by what’s believed to be a police bullet.
Ivor Rosenberg was a working volunteer security guard on the morning Jihad al Shamie, 35, launched his attack on the Heaton Park Hebrew Congregation Synagogue in Crumpsall.
He described first confronting al Shamie outside the synagogue some minutes earlier, thinking “he’s up to no good” – after he told different people conflicting stories about how he was looking for his car and a pub.
“He looked at me and said ‘what are you looking at?’,” Mr Rosenberg told Sky News.
“I just said, ‘I don’t know’… he said ‘you’re very brave inside the fence’… and he walked away.”
Image: Jihad al Shamie at the scene
Mr Rosenberg said he started walking back up the stairs towards the synagogue when he heard “an almighty bang”.
“I turned around and I saw the car smashed into the wall of the gate,” he said.
He described Alan Levy, the synagogue chairman, managing to lock the main door as he ran straight to the office and dialled 999.
“I was screaming at them – ‘we’re under attack, we’re under attack!’,” he said.
“I could hear him banging on the doors, trying to get in – threatening to kill everyone.”
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Mr Rosenberg said he looked out of the window and saw al Shamie banging on the synagogue door with a “large knife”.
“I was terrified,” he said.
After running to get chairs to put up against the synagogue door, he described holding the doors shut with a group of nine or 10 others from the synagogue.
It was then that he saw a bullet come through the door – hitting two of his friends.
After the police initially opened fire on al Shamie, Mr Rosenberg said he saw him trying to get up.
“I screamed – he’s getting up again,” he said.
“I stood back and we could hear a shot.
“Yoni – who was standing just a couple of feet away from me – dropped down to the ground.”
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Yoni Finlay is currently recovering in hospital. He is one of two men that Greater Manchester Police believe they accidentally struck with gunfire while trying to shoot al Shamie.
The other is Adrian Daulby, 53, who died from his injuries.
Melvin Cravitz, 66, who was among those who helped to prevent al Shamie from entering the synagogue, also died.
Mr Rosenberg described seeing a “bullet hole” in the door – and believes the same bullet hit both Mr Finlay and Mr Daulby, who was also behind the door with him at the time.
Image: Adrian Daulby. Pic: Family handout // Melvin Cravitz.
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He said at first he believed Mr Finlay, a friend of his for many years, was intentionally ducking to avoid the gunfire. He then quickly realised he had been injured.
“He said ‘I’ve been hit’. I think the bullet came through him and hit Mr Daulby. I thought ‘we’re all going to die’ for a minute. It was terrifying,” Mr Rosenberg said.
“I took my jacket off and cradled Yoni’s head. It was very, very scary.”
Mr Rosenberg said both of the men were “heroes” – and has had updates that Mr Finlay is continuing to recover in hospital.
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‘Brave men saved community from harm’
Two other men also remain in hospital with serious injuries – a security guard with car-impact injuries and a community worker with stab wounds.
Mr Rosenberg said that he is still struggling to come to terms with what happened that day.
“I’m okay until someone asks me how I’m doing – then it’s hard,” he said.
Four people arrested on suspicion of preparing terrorist acts remain in custody after police were granted a further five days to question them on Saturday.