Foreign Secretary James Cleverly has said he “could not speak or sleep” when he found out his wife had breast cancer.
Susie Cleverly, 49, was diagnosed with triple positive breast cancer in December 2021 after spotting dimpled skin underneath her right breast the month before – nearly a year ago to the day.
At the time, her husband was a minister in the Foreign Office, where Liz Truss was foreign secretary in the Boris Johnson administration.
The couple, who have been married for 29 years after meeting at university and have two teenage sons, spoke to Sky News’ Beth Rigby Interviews… programme about her diagnosis, how they have coped, and what it has been like to handle it all while holding one of the great offices of state.
After being diagnosed, Mrs Cleverly rang her husband, who was on the train into Westminster, and told him the doctor thought it was cancer.
“I just burst into tears and I think I cried most of that day,” she said.
‘I just couldn’t get the words out’
Mr Cleverly, 53, who has been the MP for Braintree since 2015, added: “I said I’ll come home.
“I had to ring my private secretary in the Foreign Office saying ‘can you cancel meetings because I need to go home’, and he said ‘is everything okay minister?’
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“I tried to say Susie might have cancer, I just couldn’t get the words out, I couldn’t speak – I like to talk, but I just couldn’t speak.
“I said I’ll text you, and, you know, this organisation is amazing. Liz Truss was my boss at the time, she was absolutely amazing.
“I went home, Susie and I talked it through, and I tried to ring again to explain what was going on – and I still couldn’t say a word.
“For the next couple of hours everything was done on WhatsApp, and it really hit me, I never felt anything like that before.”
Image: Susie Cleverly found dimpled skin on her right breast nearly a year ago to the day, which turned out to be breast cancer
‘The most frightening word was cancer’
Mrs Cleverly then had about eight mammograms in one day, but they could not see anything until a scan found three lumps in her breast and a node in her arm.
After an MRI, the doctors found more than 12 lumps.
“I wasn’t scared when they told me that,” she said.
“I think the most frightening thing was the word ‘cancer’, so as soon as I was on board with having cancer, I just thought I’m going to get on with it.”
Massive wave of empathy from all MPs
Mr Cleverly said their family and friends have been “fantastic”, with many shaving their heads in solidarity and for charity.
He said despite politics being “ultra-competitive”, MPs from all parties have been very supportive.
“There was this massive wave of empathy and friendship, even from people I didn’t even know particularly well, that was really touching,” he said.
Mrs Cleverly’s treatment left her incredibly ill, with her toenails falling out, infected hives, her face ballooning and stomach and mouth ulcers.
She has now had a mastectomy but is still having immunotherapy to reduce the risk of recurrence and is on a waiting list for reconstructive surgery.
“I feel great, I feel so much more like me,” she said.
‘I thought I might lose her’
But Mr Cleverly admitted there were a “couple of times” he thought he might lose his wife.
Holding back tears, he said: “I haven’t thought about my mortality, and certainly haven’t ever really given any thought to losing Susie, or what that might feel like – and then suddenly you get to confront that. And, we are close.”
The MP, who was made foreign secretary by Ms Truss in September, said he could not have taken the job if it had been earlier in the year when she was going through chemotherapy.
Mrs Cleverly said: “I would have said, do it. But you could have done so.”
Her husband added: “Had I been asked perhaps six or seven months ago when you went through chemo, I don’t think I would have been able to give it the energy and the focus I think the job deserves.
“She’s always been very, very supportive of me and my career. And I do travel a lot. I think the big thing from this is, I think both of us, maybe me, I’m less blase about the time we do have together.
“So when we are together, we’re very, very conscious of making that time really valuable and really meaningful.”
Talking about his job, Mr Cleverly added that he truly believes Ukrainians will succeed in taking their country back from Vladimir Putin, with the best option now for the Russians to withdraw.
He added that Russia should give all the Ukrainian land it has taken back, including Crimea.
“We will continue to support the Ukrainians until this is done,” he said.
The synagogue killer, Jihad al Shamie, radicalised himself after searching online for videos of the Islamic State terror group, according to a friend.
The man, Qas, said al Shamie “started using [encrypted messaging app] Telegram and searching for ISIS videos.
“Once, he even tried to show me one at the shisha lounge. I told him to go away and asked how he even got access to that content, and he said it was through Telegram. After that, I didn’t see him for a long time until I heard what had happened.”
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Another friend, Asim, told Sky News he met al Shamie through their shared interest in computers. He said he noticed a difference in al Shamie a year ago.
Asim said al Shamie “changed a bit, I felt his thoughts were a bit too radical for me. He was a nice guy, very quiet and softly-spoken. I was shocked about what he did.
“He started asking me for money – not small amounts, but thousands,” Asim explained.
“When I refused, he became angry. I’d never seen that side of him before.”
Earlier this year, al Shamie was working as a call handler for the RAC motoring organisation.
He was employed through an agency as a part-time temp from December to the end of March, when he was no longer needed.
Last year, al Shamie had money problems and was subject to a government debt relief order, which meant that his debts would be paid off in a year if he agreed to certain restrictions.
Money appeared to be one of many problems.
A former friend of al Shamie described how he became increasingly withdrawn and “in his own world” after a steroid addiction had led to heavier drug use. They said his behaviour became strange and unpredictable.
“I once noticed on his phone that he had several notifications from dating apps, which confused me because I knew he was married,” the friend said.
“You could be having a normal conversation with him, and suddenly he would flip and start ranting. I eventually blocked him.”
Image: Police and forensics officers near Heaton Park Hebrew synagogue. Pic: PA
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Multiple marriages and ‘obsessed’ with dating app
It’s believed the terrorist married several wives in Islamic wedding ceremonies, one of them even before he split up from the mother of his young child.
He reportedly became obsessed with an Islamic dating app, and sent abusive messages to an ex-girlfriend, hit her and told her to dress more conservatively during their brief on-off relationship.
The woman, who was 18 at the time, told the Manchester Evening News: “He used to say ‘I want you to be dedicated to the cause’, and he used to sit there and make me watch videos, like extreme videos, that I had no interest in.
“I am Muslim and of course I love to learn more, but this stuff were things that I have been raised to not agree with. He used to always say I was taught the wrong way and I wasn’t taught right. He was basically just trying to groom me into what he thought.”
She said he would message girls on his Muzmatch – now Muzz – dating app, using false names such as Valentino and Ahmed.
“He kept getting banned because of his speech and what he was sending,” she said.
“There were times when he would send me videos of him with other girls, and the girls were quite young.”
‘Rape fantasies’
The woman said al Shamie told her he had “rape fantasies”, and that he “used to say weird stuff, it was just insane. I can’t believe I stayed as long as I did”.
His marriage collapsed after he secretly wed an NHS nurse, a widow, who had converted to Islam.
A neighbour, Geoff Halliwell, who cleaned the family’s windows for many years at their home in Prestwich, told Sky News al Shamie had lived there with his wife and young child, but he believed left six months earlier.
Mr Halliwell said: “There was the mother and three lads, but one moved away. We’re talking about the eldest, he had a wife and kid, but she moved out some time ago.
“There was no sign of radicalisation, nothing like that. We never talked politics. Just ‘good morning, how are you? Lovely day, isn’t it?’
“He was fine, the whole thing has come out of the blue. He was a smashing lad to talk to, so were the other two lads.”
Mr Halliwell said the father left the family home about 10 years ago, but sometimes visited.
He thought he had moved to France because sometimes he turned up in a French-registered car.
Faraj al Shamie, a trauma surgeon who has worked for the International Committee of the Red Cross in Africa, condemned his son’s attack on the synagogue.
Image: Faraj al Shamie spoke of the family’s ‘deep shock and sorrow’ at his son’s actions
He said in a statement: “The al Shamie family in the UK and abroad strongly condemns this heinous act, which targeted peaceful, innocent civilians. We fully distance ourselves from this attack and express our deep shock and sorrow over what has happened.”
But, two years ago, on 7 October, he praised the actions of Hamas terrorists for their attack on Israel in which 1,200 were killed and 251 taken back to Gaza as hostages.
Al Shamie wrote on Facebook: “The scenes broadcast by the Al-Aqsa Martyrs Brigades of a group of fighters storming an Israeli army camp using simple means, namely balloons and motorcycles, prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that Israel will not remain.”
Additional reporting by Shakir Ahmed, specialist producer and Rebecca Spencer, crime producer
Author Dame Jilly Cooper has died, her publisher has said.
“It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Dame Jilly Cooper, DBE who died on Sunday morning, after a fall, at the age of 88,” a statement said.
The Queen paid tribute to Dame Jilly, calling her a “legend” who was a “wonderfully witty and compassionate friend”.
The best-selling author was renowned for her raunchy, so-called “bonkbuster” novels, which portrayed the scandals and sex lives of wealthy country social circles, including Rivals, Riders and Polo.
She was praised for her blend of risqué storylines and critique of Britain’s class system, personified by showjumping lothario Rupert Campbell-Black.
Her children Felix and Emily said: “Mum was the shining light in all of our lives. Her love for all of her family and friends knew no bounds.
“Her unexpected death has come as a complete shock.
“We are so proud of everything she achieved in her life and can’t begin to imagine life without her infectious smile and laughter all around us.”
Image: Jilly Cooper met Queen Camilla during a reception at Clarence House in March this year. Pic: PA
Image: Jilly Cooper and daughter Emily. Pic: PA
Dame Jilly was propelled to commercial success in the 1980s, and sold 11 million copies of her books during her more than fifty-year career.
Last year, Rivals was adapted into a successful TV series, which she worked on as an executive producer.
Image: Jilly Cooper found fame in the 1980s. Pic: Nikki English/ANL/Shutterstock
Tributes to author who created ‘a whole new genre’
Dame Jilly was a long-standing friend of the Queen.
In a statement released by Buckingham Palace, she said: “I was so saddened to learn of Dame Jilly’s death last night.
“Very few writers get to be a legend in their own lifetime but Jilly was one, creating a whole new genre of literature and making it her own through a career that spanned over five decades.
“In person she was a wonderfully witty and compassionate friend to me and so many – and it was a particular pleasure to see her just a few weeks ago at my Queen’s Reading Room Festival where she was, as ever, a star of the show.
“I join my husband the King in sending our thoughts and sympathies to all her family.
“And may her hereafter be filled with impossibly handsome men and devoted dogs.”
The author’s many fans included former prime minister Rishi Sunak, who said the books offered “escapism”.
Image: Jilly Cooper with cast members from Rivals in 2024. Pic: Hogan Media/Shutterstock
‘Dame Jilly defined culture’
Her agent Felicity Blunt said: “The privilege of my career has been working with a woman who has defined culture, writing and conversation since she was first published over fifty years ago.”
She added: “You wouldn’t expect books categorised as bonkbusters to have so emphatically stood the test of time, but Jilly wrote with acuity and insight about all things – class, sex, marriage, rivalry, grief and fertility.”
The executive producers of the Disney+ adaptation, Rivals, said they are “broken-hearted” and “her legacy will endure”.
Dominic Treadwell-Collins and Alex Lamb added: “Jilly was and always will be one of the world’s greatest storytellers, and it has been the most incredible honour to have been able to work with her to adapt her incredible novels for television.”
As tributes rolled in on Monday, TV presenter Kirsty Allsopp wrote on X: “I know 88 is a good age, but this is very sad news.
“A British institution, funny, enthusiastic and self-deprecating, we don’t see enough of it these days.”
Her publisher Bill Scott-Kerr said: “Jilly may have worn her influence lightly, but she was a true trailblazer.
“As a journalist she went where others feared to tread, and as a novelist she did likewise.
“With a winning combination of glorious storytelling, wicked social commentary and deft, lacerating characterisation, she dissected the behaviour, bad mostly, of the English upper middle classes with the sharpest of scalpels.”
Image: Author Jilly Cooper with two stars of a mini TV series based on her book Riders. Pic: PA
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The ‘unholy terror’
Born in Essex in 1937, Jilly Cooper came from a Yorkshire family known for newspaper publishing and politics.
Her writing career began in 1956 as a junior reporter on the Middlesex Independent, covering everything from parties to football.
Image: Aidan Turner played the character Declan O’Hara in Rivals. Pic: PA
She had said she was known as the “unholy terror” at school, and was sacked from 22 jobs before finding her way into book publishing.
Dame Jilly started writing stories for women’s magazines in 1968, and found her break in 1969 when The Sunday Times published a story on being an ”undomesticated” homemaker. It gave rise to a column that lasted over 13 years.
In 2019 she won the inaugural Comedy Women in Print lifetime achievement award, and in 2024 was made a dame for her services to literature and charity.
A security guard who helped barricade the doors during the Manchester synagogue attack has told Sky News he thought “we are all going to die” – as he watched two of his friends get struck by what’s believed to be a police bullet.
Ivor Rosenberg was a working volunteer security guard on the morning Jihad al Shamie, 35, launched his attack on the Heaton Park Hebrew Congregation Synagogue in Crumpsall.
He described first confronting al Shamie outside the synagogue some minutes earlier, thinking “he’s up to no good” – after he told different people conflicting stories about how he was looking for his car and a pub.
“He looked at me and said ‘what are you looking at?’,” Mr Rosenberg told Sky News.
“I just said, ‘I don’t know’… he said ‘you’re very brave inside the fence’… and he walked away.”
Image: Jihad al Shamie at the scene
Mr Rosenberg said he started walking back up the stairs towards the synagogue when he heard “an almighty bang”.
“I turned around and I saw the car smashed into the wall of the gate,” he said.
He described Alan Levy, the synagogue chairman, managing to lock the main door as he ran straight to the office and dialled 999.
“I was screaming at them – ‘we’re under attack, we’re under attack!’,” he said.
“I could hear him banging on the doors, trying to get in – threatening to kill everyone.”
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Mr Rosenberg said he looked out of the window and saw al Shamie banging on the synagogue door with a “large knife”.
“I was terrified,” he said.
After running to get chairs to put up against the synagogue door, he described holding the doors shut with a group of nine or 10 others from the synagogue.
It was then that he saw a bullet come through the door – hitting two of his friends.
After the police initially opened fire on al Shamie, Mr Rosenberg said he saw him trying to get up.
“I screamed – he’s getting up again,” he said.
“I stood back and we could hear a shot.
“Yoni – who was standing just a couple of feet away from me – dropped down to the ground.”
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Yoni Finlay is currently recovering in hospital. He is one of two men that Greater Manchester Police believe they accidentally struck with gunfire while trying to shoot al Shamie.
The other is Adrian Daulby, 53, who died from his injuries.
Melvin Cravitz, 66, who was among those who helped to prevent al Shamie from entering the synagogue, also died.
Mr Rosenberg described seeing a “bullet hole” in the door – and believes the same bullet hit both Mr Finlay and Mr Daulby, who was also behind the door with him at the time.
Image: Adrian Daulby. Pic: Family handout // Melvin Cravitz.
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He said at first he believed Mr Finlay, a friend of his for many years, was intentionally ducking to avoid the gunfire. He then quickly realised he had been injured.
“He said ‘I’ve been hit’. I think the bullet came through him and hit Mr Daulby. I thought ‘we’re all going to die’ for a minute. It was terrifying,” Mr Rosenberg said.
“I took my jacket off and cradled Yoni’s head. It was very, very scary.”
Mr Rosenberg said both of the men were “heroes” – and has had updates that Mr Finlay is continuing to recover in hospital.
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‘Brave men saved community from harm’
Two other men also remain in hospital with serious injuries – a security guard with car-impact injuries and a community worker with stab wounds.
Mr Rosenberg said that he is still struggling to come to terms with what happened that day.
“I’m okay until someone asks me how I’m doing – then it’s hard,” he said.
Four people arrested on suspicion of preparing terrorist acts remain in custody after police were granted a further five days to question them on Saturday.